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After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need.
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Audio I turned my family against my husband during my affair, do you have any suggestions of what I can do to heal those relationships? 5/16/2012
Text Financial Infidelity: 6 Tips to Fix It 5/11/2012
Audio How long does it take for remiders to go away and for my mate's temptation to subside? 5/08/2012
Audio My husband is a sex addict, how can we develop and maintain a healthy sexual relationship? 5/08/2012
Audio My wife says she still loves her AP is that normal and is she really comitted to the marriage? 5/08/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on May 14 5/08/2012
Text How To Handle Pain: Healing After An Affair 4/26/2012
Audio We attended the AR program two years ago and have been doing really well until last week when my wife discovered that I didn't give her full disclosure, any suggestions? 4/23/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A call on May 7 4/23/2012
Audio My mate has lapse behaviors and I'm having problems trusting him any suggestions? 4/16/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A call on April 23 4/16/2012
Audio My husband is angry, mean and withdrawn since he got caught. Any book or music suggestions? 4/16/2012
Audio We feel we need to explain to our friends in our small group what's going on since he had an affair with one of the other couples and we're avoiding them, do you have any suggestions? 4/06/2012
Audio My husband has been dealing with a sexual addiction, over the past two years the frequency of our love making as declined, why is that? 4/06/2012
Audio Why is my husband Jealous of me if he's the one who cheated? 4/06/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A on April 16 4/06/2012
Audio Will EMS help us move forward or will it cause us to fall back into old destructive feelings? 4/06/2012
Text 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012
Audio Does the fact that I'm a sex addict automatically make me a co-sex-addict? 3/26/2012
Audio It's been 4 months since d-day and my wife is beeing taunted by my AP which is making her angry with me, how should I respond? 3/26/2012
Audio We're nine months into recovery and my mate has slipped and been inconsistent with SAA and therapy, should I tell our kids what's going on? 3/26/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A on April 2 3/26/2012
Text Social Media, Emotional Affairs & Infidelity 3/22/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A call on March 26 3/19/2012
Audio If my husband didn't tell me everything at discovery does that make our last 4 years a lie? 3/19/2012
Audio If my husband has been unfaithful for the past 9 years can we change? Have I been married to a single man for the past 9 years and is there anything worth salvaging in our marriage? 3/19/2012
Audio Is it okay to share my opinions with my mate regarding the root of their problem? 3/19/2012
Text Surviving Infidelity: Finding the Root Problem And How To Heal 3/14/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A call on March 12 3/05/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A call on March 5 2/24/2012
Audio How do I take care of myself and my little ones as our family breaks apart? How do I heal when my husband wont do what it takes? 2/24/2012
Audio It's been a year since discovery and I'm still confused, we don't seem as close, should I give up if I'm still not sure what to do? 2/24/2012
Text Survey results for Valentine’s Day: Surviving Infidelity & Surviving Valentine’s Day 2/14/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on February 27 2/13/2012
Text The Valentine's Day After Syndrome and Survey Results 2/13/2012
Text Welcome to the Recovery Library 2/02/2012
Audio I found the chapter on reminders to be helpful, but need help with how to counter my intrusive thoughts with the truth, any suggestions? 1/31/2012
Audio My wife is lying about contact with her AP and is planning on meeting him, should I continure having sex with her and continue with trying to be what she wants? 1/31/2012
Audio What advice do you have for bringing our sexual relationship back online? 1/31/2012
Audio It's been 10 months since discovery and we're doing well, is it too early to both recommit to our marriage? 1/31/2012
Audio My AP continues to text me, I've told my spouse and neither of us have responded, what should we do? 1/31/2012
Audio My huband has put constraints on when I can ask questions and he won't accept respoinsiblity for his actions, what can I do? 1/31/2012
Audio My husband is a sex addict and now when I go out in public I'm so distrurbed by seeing women I think he might be attracted to I break down in tears, what can I do? 1/31/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on February 13 1/31/2012
Audio How can I discuss my feelings with my mate and help him not be defensive? 1/31/2012
Audio I'm the unfaithful spouse and my repair attempts sound like justification, denial or minimizing, what can I do to approach my mate in a more productive manner? 1/31/2012
Audio Rick's Q & A Call on January 30 1/23/2012
Text Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1/18/2012
Audio My wife has little or no insight into what her affair did to me, is "getting it" necessary for reparing a marriage and is there hope that she will care about the hurt she caused me? 1/16/2012
Audio My mate won't participate in the post EMS calls, what should I do? 1/16/2012

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