For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

1323 Resources
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Video icon Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair
Video icon Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore?
Video icon Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us?
Video icon Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy?
Video icon Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger?
Text icon Who is the Other Woman?
Video icon Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried?
Text icon Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability?
Video icon Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me?
Video icon Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?
Text icon The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope
Text icon Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
Video icon Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?
Text icon Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders
Video icon Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?
Video icon Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?
Text icon A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure
Video icon Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
Text icon How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity?
Text icon Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?
Video icon Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?
Text icon How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
Video icon Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?