Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair
2/14/2024
Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore?
1/30/2024
Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together?
1/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us?
1/30/2024
Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy?
1/09/2024
Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable?
1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe?
1/09/2024
Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions?
1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me?
1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger?
1/09/2024
Who is the Other Woman?
12/06/2023
Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair?
11/28/2023
Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried?
11/28/2023
Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability?
10/24/2023
Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship?
10/23/2023
Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself?
10/23/2023
Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD?
10/23/2023
Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me?
10/23/2023
Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?
10/23/2023
Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse?
10/23/2023
Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me?
10/23/2023
The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope
10/18/2023
Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery
10/04/2023
Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment?
9/29/2023
Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long?
9/29/2023
Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders
9/20/2023
Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love?
9/12/2023
Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me?
9/12/2023
A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure
8/16/2023
Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded?
8/15/2023
Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure?
8/15/2023
How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity?
7/19/2023
Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery
7/12/2023
Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner?
6/29/2023
Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There?
6/29/2023
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise?
6/16/2023
Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work?
6/16/2023
Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty?
6/16/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family?
6/16/2023
Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner?
6/16/2023
Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs?
6/16/2023
How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling)
5/24/2023
Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity?
5/19/2023
Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?
5/19/2023
Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?
5/02/2023
Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?
5/02/2023