For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
Video icon The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma
Video icon Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?
Video icon The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?
Video icon Lies We Believe About Our Spouse
Video icon Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth?
Video icon Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?
Video icon Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse?
Text icon Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair
Text icon Wanting to Be Wanted
Text icon Am I Who They Want?
Video icon Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens?
Video icon Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair?
Text icon Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This.
Video icon Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process?
Video icon Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife?
Video icon Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion?
Video icon Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair?
Video icon Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective
Video icon Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy?
Video icon Were They Thinking of Me?
Video icon Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again?
Video icon The Fantasyland of an Affair
Video icon Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner?
Video icon Mistakes Families Make After an Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse?