For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 1230 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023 Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023 Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable? 10/23/2023 Q&A Can You Address Ambivalence on Behalf of the Betrayed Spouse? 10/23/2023 Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love? 9/12/2023 Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me? 9/12/2023 How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity? 9/06/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023 Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded? 8/15/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner? 6/16/2023 Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs? 6/16/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023 Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023 Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
