Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?
7/02/2025
Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?
7/02/2025
Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?
6/18/2025
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?
6/18/2025
Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?
6/12/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?
5/28/2025
The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma
5/28/2025
Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair
5/21/2025
Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?
5/14/2025
Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?
5/06/2025
Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?
4/23/2025
Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety
4/23/2025
Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?
4/16/2025
Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?
4/09/2025
The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage
4/09/2025
Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner?
4/02/2025
Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?
4/02/2025
Lies We Believe About Our Spouse
4/02/2025
Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth?
4/01/2025
Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?
4/01/2025
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse?
3/26/2025
Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair
3/12/2025
Wanting to Be Wanted
3/05/2025
Am I Who They Want?
2/25/2025
Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens?
2/25/2025
Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair?
2/25/2025
Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner?
2/19/2025
Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers?
2/18/2025
Q&A Please Help Me Understand What My Reality Is as We Try to Recover from This.
2/11/2025
Q&A How Do I Tell the Wayward Spouse I Need More Discussion to Heal and Process?
2/11/2025
Q&A Why Has My Spouse Refused to Cut Ties with His High School Sweetheart?
2/04/2025
Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Raw Emotion from My Unfaithful Wife?
2/04/2025
Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery?
1/22/2025
Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend?
1/14/2025
Q&A What Do You Do If the Wayward Spouse Shows No Remorse, Empathy, or Compassion?
1/14/2025
Q&A How Important Is Attunement When Recovering from an Affair?
1/08/2025
Parenting Through Infidelity: A Father/Daughter Perspective
12/26/2024
Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust When His Words Still Feel Scripted and Devoid of Genuine Empathy?
12/17/2024
Were They Thinking of Me?
12/04/2024
Q&A What If My Husband Doesn’t Want to Change?
12/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again?
12/03/2024
The Fantasyland of an Affair
11/27/2024
Q&A Will She Ever Tell the Truth Without Being Backed Into a Corner?
11/26/2024
Mistakes Families Make After an Affair
11/13/2024
Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse?
11/12/2024
Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse?
10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey?
10/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness?
10/22/2024
Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse?
10/22/2024