For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1278 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner? 8/22/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That My Wayward Spouse to Become More Ambivalent? 8/22/2018 Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'? 8/15/2018 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse? 8/15/2018 Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses? 8/15/2018 Q&A Will My Spouse Ever Grow Up? 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do We Rebuild from the Rubble at This Point? 8/08/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Do I Move On? 8/08/2018 Q&A Do I Let Her Go? 8/08/2018 Q&A What Will Happen to My Wayward Spouse If She Never Pursues Healing? 8/08/2018 Q&A How Are You Supposed to 'Enjoy' Your Mate When There Is so Much Anger and Pain? 8/08/2018 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Still Curious about the Affair Partner? 8/08/2018 Q&A Should I Be Concerned about My Mates Behavior Patterns? 8/01/2018 Q&A How Can My Mate Help Restore My Honor? 8/01/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers in the Curriculum? 7/23/2018 Q&A Did My Husband Love Me While He Was Being Unfaithful to Me? 7/16/2018 Q&A Shouldn't My Mate Be More Empathetic by Now? 7/16/2018 Q&A What If He Can Never Truly See the Affair Partner for Who They Are? 7/16/2018 Q&A What Do I Do about My Mean Unfaithful Spouse? 7/16/2018 Q&A How Do I Move past the Feelings of Rage I Have Towards the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can Regularly Consuming the Content of the Betrayed Forums Be Counter-Productive to Healing? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety in Our Situation? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can I Change My Unfaithful Mates Perception of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A What Do I Do with Triggering Pictures? 7/11/2018 Q&A Do You Have Any Recommendations for Communicating My Needs? 7/11/2018 Q&A Are There Differences in Love of Spouse in Marriage and Love of the Affair Partner? 7/11/2018 Q&A Can My Husband Heal without Continued Expert Help? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Much Information Should I Have about the Affair? 7/11/2018 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable by Wanting My Mate to View the Affair Partner in a Different Light? 7/11/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Thinking? 7/11/2018 Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me? 7/06/2018 Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Taking Recovery Seriously? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband Who Is Ambivalent and Distant? 7/06/2018 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Mate to Come out of Limerence? 6/27/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for the Betrayed Moving through Discovery? 6/27/2018 Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122…next ›last »