For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Comparison to the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Am I Expecting too Much?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know I'm Not Paranoid?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them?
Video icon Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done?
Video icon Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me?
Video icon Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful
Video icon Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened?
Video icon Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Expect from a Recovering Wayward Wife?
Video icon Q&A Should I Be Open to Reconciliation?
Video icon Q&A Can I Ever Expect My Mate's Attraction Towards the Affair Partner to End?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do for My Ambivalent Spouse?
Video icon Q&A I Feel Stuck in My Mates Recovery. What Should I Do?
Video icon Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set around This Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Contacting the Affair Partner on Behalf of Your Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Too Nice?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Mate Encouraging a Revenge Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Recover from the Devastation I Feel Regarding His Infidelities?
Video icon Q&A How Do I State Expectations without Being Codependent?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Get Closure?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome My Barriers to Intimacy?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Effectively Encourage My Spouse to Receive Individual Expert Help?
Video icon Q&A Can You Offer Insight into Getting Un-Stuck?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Combat Visual Triggers?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Wait for Consistent Honesty?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get past the Deceit and Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Stop the Intrusive Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Lying?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with My Feelings towards the Affair Partner?
Text icon Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2
Text icon Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was?
Video icon Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible That My Wayward Spouse to Become More Ambivalent?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses?