For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How Could You? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can Separation Increase the Time It Takes a Couple to Recover? 10/09/2017 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Begin Their Own Healing? 10/09/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Discuss the Affair with My Mate? 10/05/2017 Q&A What Do I Do with My Husband's Lack of Remorse? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Handle People Ignoring the Affair? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get over the Sexual Things My Husband Would Do with His AP, but Not with Me? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle Transparency in Recovery? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Get the Care I Need When He Doesn't Care about Himself? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is It Important That the Unfaithful Mourn the Loss of the Affair/Affair Partner? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Us? 10/05/2017 Q&A Can a Man Truly Love Two Women at the Same Time? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do I Overcome Fear of Relapse? 10/05/2017 Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017 Q&A Does It Ever Feel Okay to Get the Divorce? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do I Get through Each Day Knowing My Mate Doesn't Love Me or Want Me? 9/27/2017 Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation? 9/27/2017 Q&A What Do We Do from Here? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers? 9/27/2017 Q&A What Should My next Step Be? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Does Trauma Bonding Impact Recovery? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017 Q&A Are There Similarities between Bipolar Disorder and Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 9/20/2017 Q&A Can You Explain How Compartmentalization Works? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is There Such Thing as A "Fake Recovery"? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way? 9/20/2017 Q&A Am I Living in Denial? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Get Him to See That He Has to Do the Work for Our Marriage to Survive? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Spouse to Grieve over the Affair Partner? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity? 9/06/2017 Q&A Would You Please Expand on Your Experiences with Childhood Sexual Abuse and Sex Addiction? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Best Decide If I Stay or If I Go? 9/06/2017 Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate with My Mate? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should We Start the Healing Process over Again? 9/06/2017 Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Become More Romantic? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Is Euphoric Recall? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing? 8/18/2017 Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return? 8/18/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent? 8/18/2017 Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn? 7/26/2017 Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe? 7/26/2017 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526next ›last »