For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'?
Video icon Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss?
Video icon Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker?
Video icon Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret?
Video icon Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits?
Video icon Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry?
Video icon Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Understand the Mind of the Unfaithful?
Video icon Q&A Why Isn't My Mate Grateful I Haven't Left Yet?
Video icon Q&A How Much Initiation Should the Unfaithful Spouse Be Responsible for in the Healing Process?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Need to Know?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome the Fear I Have with His Sexual Performance?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Heal from the Affair While Raising a Child Conceived with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Set Reasonable Boundaries?
Video icon Q&A How Can My Mate Get the AP to Stop Contact?
Video icon Q&A Do I Need to Know?
Video icon Q&A Am I in a Phase?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Sure the Type of Sex He Had with His AP Is Not His New Preference?
Video icon Q&A Was His Behavior Typical of Someone in an Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Be Sure That the Feelings Are Gone?
Video icon Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?
Video icon Q&A What Might It Take for My Heart to Stop Aching and Me to Be Truly 'All In'?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Fully Commit to My Wife?
Video icon Q&A What Causes Someone to Cheat?
Video icon Q&A Should I Prepare to Leave or Take Control of Our Healing?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Reflect on How He Got Here?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Convey the Importance of Remorse and Grief from My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Not Just Safe, but Free Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle Daily Triggers?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Nothing for My Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Why Won't My Mate Fully Commit to Me?
Video icon Q&A Was the Affair a Result of Childhood Abuse?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Unfaithful Mate So Selfish?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask about the Physical Parts of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A When Will My Mate Feel Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A Does Childhood Abuse Predispose People to Infidelity?