For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1199 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Important is a Normal Routine in Recovery? 9/28/2015 Q&A How can I Tell if I'm Handling this Well? 8/27/2015 Q&A Are there any Markers for Knowing Whether a Betrayed Spouse can Heal? 8/25/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Q&A Am I Being Compared to the Affair Partner? 7/20/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes? 6/26/2015 Q&A Can You Help me Find Reasons to Stay? 6/26/2015 Q&A Is no Sexual Desire Common? 6/09/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Get Over the Treatment by the Unfaithful While in an Affair? 5/19/2015 Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on? 5/19/2015 Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You? 5/19/2015 Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse? 5/19/2015 Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair? 5/12/2015 Q&A How Much Can be Shared About the Affair Sex? 5/12/2015 Q&A Should I Publicly Expose my Spouse's Affair Partner? 5/12/2015 Q&A Why do They Continue to Lie? 5/12/2015 Q&A How Long Does it Take to Heal From Infidelity? 5/12/2015 Q&A My Spouse Works With Their Affair Partner. Will They Relapse? 5/04/2015 Q&A How Can we Shift Control of the Relationship? 4/24/2015 Q&A Why is it Not a Good Idea to Contact the AP? 4/24/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal with the Affair Partner Having Been in my House? 4/21/2015 Q&A Should I Reciprocate Transparency With my Phone? 4/21/2015 Q&A How Long do I Wait for my Wife to End her Affair? 4/21/2015 Q&A How do I Obtain Closure When the AP is his Ex-Wife? 4/21/2015 Q&A How can I Gain Perspective of an Addict's Mind? 4/15/2015 Q&A Why am I Afraid to Move Forward to a Normal State? 4/15/2015 Q&A What is Going Through His Mind? 3/31/2015 Q&A What are Your Views on the Affair Partner? 3/31/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to Struggle with Liking my Mate? 3/31/2015 Q&A How Can I Stop This Obsession? 3/31/2015 Q&A Why am I Still Upset? 3/31/2015 Q&A What Can I do Since my Husband is Still in His Affair? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can I Deal With my Rage? 3/20/2015 Q&A Would more Detail Help me Heal? 3/20/2015 Q&A Should I Cut off All Contact With my Husband? 3/20/2015 Q&A How Can a Just God Allow This? How can I Get rid of this Pain? 3/10/2015 Q&A My Husband Refuses to Sever Ties with his AP. What do you Suggest I do? 3/10/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Q&A What's the Difference Between Personal Recovery and Marital Recovery? 2/20/2015 Q&A Is my Spouse a Sex Addict? 2/20/2015 Q&A Could my Spouse be Held Back Without Full Disclosure? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can my Husband Consider Himself Single? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Spouse Take a Lie Detector? 2/20/2015 Q&A Should my Husband be Doing More? 2/20/2015 Q&A How can I Know if my Husband may be Having Another Affair? 2/20/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…161718192021222324next ›last »