For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What My Mate Was Thinking?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do?”
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything I Can Personally Do to Discourage a Persistent AP?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do When You Spouse Refuses Help and Wants Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Do I, as the Betrayed, Learn to Love My Mate Again?
Video icon Q&A If Relapse Continues, Does the Effort by the Betrayed Even Matter?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Forgive Myself for Transmitting My Pain?
Video icon Q&A What's the Normal Length of Time People Refrain from Sex after Discovering Infidelity?
Video icon Q&A When Is Enough, Enough?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate My Need for Safety in Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Get That Special Place Back Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate the Importance of Being Real and Authentic?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Connected to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Proceed When My Spouse Isn't Safe?
Video icon Q&A How Do People Truly Move beyond This Pain?
Video icon Q&A When We're Being Sexual, How Can I Get the Affair Partner out of My Head?
Video icon Q&A What Will It Take for My Mate to Face Reality?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know This Hasn't Happened Before? How Can I Know It Won't Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Begin to Move past This?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Effectively Communicate My Pain?
Video icon Q&A Why Would the Unfaithful Shame the Betrayed?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Do I Accept My Mate Wanting a Divorce, or Do I Fight for the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do If Things Are Getting Worse Rather Than Better?
Video icon Q&A Is My Spouse Really Trying to Disconnect from the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Break the Barrier between Us When the Unfaithful Says He Isn't Sure He Wants to Be Married?
Video icon Q&A How Can Two Seriously Broken People Move Forward?
Video icon Q&A If I Continue to Have Sex with My Spouse, Am I Letting Him Use Me?
Video icon Q&A How Long Is Normal for Him to Grieve the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop Getting a Sense of Security from My Anger?
Video icon Q&A If He Had the Affair, Why Do I Feel Like the 'Bad Guy'?
Video icon Q&A Is This Normal, or Is My Spouse a Sex Addict?
Video icon Q&A Can Medication Prevent Me from Properly Grieving the Loss?
Video icon Q&A If I Decide to Stay, How Do I Trust Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can You Create Safety When the Affair Partner Is a Co-Worker?
Video icon Q&A What's the Difference between Sorrow and Regret?
Video icon Q&A What Was My Unfaithful Mate Thinking?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Spouse to Crave Intimacy If the Wayward Spouse Is Not Interested?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Unfaithful Still Justifies the Affair with Marriage Deficits?
Video icon Q&A Would My Spouse Apologizing to Our Friends Restore My Sense of Honor?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unrealistic to Expect Answers to 'Why'?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Bad Dreams?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal When My Husband Gets So Angry?
Video icon Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Behavior before D-Day?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Process the Truth of What Has Happened?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Forgive the AP Who Was Also a Close Friend?
Video icon Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Again?