For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Power of Small Groups Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 1272 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn? 1/26/2023 Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023 Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her? 1/11/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022 Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If I Don’t Believe My Mate Has Been Completely Honest with Their Full Disclosure? 10/13/2022 Q&A Am I Struggling Because I Still Feel Unsafe in Recovery? 10/13/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Q&A What Can We Do Differently? 9/13/2022 Q&A How Do We Move Forward When I’m Not Sure He Can Admit to Himself What His Demons Are? 8/26/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Q&A How Do I Not Feel So Bad About My Own Body? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Repulsion by the Idea of Sex Post Betrayal? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Long Are You Suppose to Wait for Unfaithful to Take Responsibility and Have Empathy? 8/03/2022 Q&A Should I Get Breast Implants to Please My Husband? 8/03/2022 Q&A How Do I Forgive Myself for Marrying Someone While Choosing to Essentially Re-Marry Him? 8/03/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 Q&A Are My Expectations to High? What Should He Be Doing to Reinforce That Love and Value of Me? 7/01/2022 Q&A What Are the Signs I Should Run and Not Bother Wasting My Time or Emotions on Trying to Make My Marriage Work? 7/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Q&A How Can I Be Comfortable Being Intimate Again? 6/14/2022 Q&A Can I Truly Trust a Polygraph? 6/14/2022 Q&A Why Does My Mate Still Want Me to Obey Him after His Affair? 6/14/2022 Q&A Could It Be Limerance When the Affair Partner Is an Old Flame? 6/14/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Q&A How Do I Handle Knowing the ‘Who’ Matters More to Me than the ‘What’? 5/24/2022 Q&A When Will the Constant Feeling That Another Betrayal Is Right around the Corner Fade? 5/24/2022 Q&A What Do I Do If My Spouse Works with Their Affair Partner? 5/24/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Q&A How Do I Continue Supporting Her While Taking Care of My Heart and Mental Health? 4/20/2022 Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us? 4/20/2022 Q&A How Do I Move Forward Knowing That He Already Has The Mindset That This Could Happen Again? 4/08/2022 Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
