For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 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Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 1306 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is It Reasonable for Me to Feel Unsafe When My Wife Is around the Affair Partner without Me? 10/23/2023 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 10/18/2023 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 10/04/2023 Q&A Is Minimal Contact the Right Thing to Do at This Moment? 9/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Profound Pain Caused by My Unfaithful Spouse Treating Me with Disdain for So Long? 9/29/2023 Healing After an Affair: Emotional Flooding and Reminders 9/20/2023 Q&A Can My Wife Be In Limerence Twice with the Same Man or Is It Love? 9/12/2023 Q&A How Long until My Husband Will Stop Focusing On Himself and Start Showing Up for Me? 9/12/2023 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 8/23/2023 A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey: Rewriting the Past After Disclosure 8/16/2023 Q&A How Can I Even Buckle Down and Finish EMS Online Knowing That Essentially I Was Discarded? 8/15/2023 Q&A How Do I Show Empathy Towards My Wife after Her Revenge Affair When She Refuses to Give Full Disclosure? 8/15/2023 The Antidote for Shame: Understanding the Unfaithful 7/26/2023 How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand How My Husband Can Be Apathetic toward the Affair Partner? 6/29/2023 Q&A How Do I Stop the Triggers and Reminders When Every Day They Are There? 6/29/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Acknowledge the Work My Husband Is Doing Without Giving Him Too Much Praise? 6/16/2023 Q&A Is It Common for Betrayed Spouses to Have Trouble with Depression and Lack of Focus Which Detrimentally Affects Their Work? 6/16/2023 Q&A Why Would He Go Back to the Same Person He Thinks Is So Nasty? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Betrayal When the Affair Partner Is So Close with My Husband’s Family? 6/16/2023 Q&A How Do I Move past Something I Love Being Shared with the Affair Partner? 6/16/2023 Q&A Can You Elaborate More on Type Four Affairs? 6/16/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Q&A Am I Wrong to Still Be in This Much Pain? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Can I Have Hope for My Mates Recovery with Those Odds? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate Recovery If My Mate Doesn’t Believe They Are Committing Infidelity? 5/19/2023 Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate? 5/19/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend? 5/02/2023 Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did? 5/02/2023 Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse? 4/12/2023 Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed? 4/12/2023 Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse? 3/17/2023 Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women? 3/17/2023 Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair? 2/17/2023 Q&A How Do We Navigate My Sister Being the Affair Partner? 1/26/2023 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Enjoyment of Porn? 1/26/2023 Q&A What Kind of Affair Is This? 1/11/2023 Q&A What Can I Do, as the Betrayed, to Try and Get Closure? 1/11/2023 Q&A Are My Boundaries for My Spouse Unreasonable? 1/11/2023 Q&A How Can He Have No Feelings for the Affair Partner or Not Remember How He Expressed Feelings for Her? 1/11/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Q&A Am I Wrong to Feel Suspicious or Am I Jumping to Conclusions? 12/06/2022 Q&A How Can I Trust My Mate Who Won’t Be Open with Me? 12/06/2022 Q&A If He Was Having an Affair to Get Some Sort of Thrill or Feeling from That Person Why Did He Constantly Want My Attention Too? 12/06/2022 Q&A Do You Think He Truly Meant What He Said While Also Calling Me Beautiful on a Regular Basis? 12/06/2022 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
