For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Memories Pure and Special Again?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A Did He Really Not Consider Me or His Children?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get These Constant Reminders Out of My Head?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Can You Clarify the Statement, ‘Don't Rebuild Your Old Marriage. You Must Build Something New’?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle In-Laws?
Video icon Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Move Forward in My Relationship with My Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Know My Mate Didn't Just Prefer Sex With Someone Else?
Video icon Q&A How Probable It Is That He Can Stop Cheating and Have a Normal Sex Life?
Video icon Q&A As the Betrayed, How Do I Stop Obsessing About the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband's Refusal to Consider Accountability?
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Wayward Husband Share Our Children’s Lives with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A I'm the Hurt Partner and I'm Extremely Codependent, Now What?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When My Husband's Needs Are a Trigger for Me?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask Him the Questions I Have About Presents That He Gave to Her?
Video icon Q&A Would Her Medication Have Created the Same Brain Chemicals as Limerence?
Video icon Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure?
Text icon The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy
Video icon Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger?
Video icon Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A Could You Help?
Video icon Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story?
Video icon Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement?
Video icon Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do?
Video icon Q&A Should He Leave His Job?
Video icon Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband?
Video icon Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out?
Text icon Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help
Video icon Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie?
Video icon Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph?
Video icon Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It?
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward?
Video icon Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs?