Recovering Alone

Recovery can be won even if your spouse is not willing to participate just yet. What is most important is your own individual recovery so that you can thrive in a life of new hope and restoration.

180 Resources
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Video icon Q&A Would it be Best Overall if we Divorced so he Could Pursue his Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing.
Video icon Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On?
Video icon Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better?
Video icon Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure?
Video icon Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy?
Video icon Q&A Based on our Situation, Would it be Best to Separate?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances?
Video icon Q&A How can we Heal if we don't Talk?
Video icon Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce?
Video icon Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse?
Video icon Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't He, and Will He Ever, Understand My Pain?
Video icon Q&A What Concerns Should I Have at this Point in Our Recovery from His Affair?
Video icon Q&A How do We Deal With Chronic Pain, Medication Addiction, and Affair Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How do I Deal With an Extremely Obstinate Unfaithful Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Try to Hold On?
Video icon Q&A qWhat Are Appropriate Separation Protocols?
Video icon Q&A Why Would He Do this After Already Inflicting so Much Pain?
Video icon Q&A Should We Part Ways Now to Save Ourselves?
Video icon Q&A Will My Spouse Come Around or is it Time to End it After the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Should I Let Go or is This Normal Behavior?
Video icon Q&A Why is My Mate Not Making Healing and Recovery a Priority?
Video icon Q&A If the Infidelity Continues, is it Time for Divorce?
Video icon Q&A Any Considerations for Me to Determine Safety in the Relationship?
Video icon Q&A What Will Help My Unfaithful Spouse 'Get it'?
Video icon Q&A How Long Should I Resist Divorce?
Video icon Q&A What Can I Do to Keep Things From Unwinding?
Video icon Q&A What if My Mate Isn't Committed to the EMSO Contract?
Video icon Q&A How Can We Move Forward While There is Still Lying to My Face?
Video icon Q&A How do we Face this Logistical Challenge?
Video icon Q&A Would it be Better Without Me?
Video icon Q&A How Should I Continue From Here?
Video icon Q&A Is This an Unsafe Person?
Video icon Q&A What About Financial Safety?
Audio icon Q&A What's the Right Thing to Do Here?
Audio icon Q&A Should I Leave and Work on Me?
Audio icon Q&A What Direction Should I Take?
Audio icon Q&A How Long Should I Wait for My Spouse to Return?
Audio icon Q&A What Will the Future Hold in This Scenario?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Feel Safety in an Unsafe Environment?
Audio icon Q&A What Should I Be Looking for From My Spouse to Feel Safe?
Audio icon Q&A (HH) How do You Know When to Invite an Unfaithful Spouse Home?
Video icon Q&A Are There any Interventions you Suggest?
Video icon Q&A What's Reasonable to Make Me Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Can I Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A What's Left to Do at This Point?
Audio icon Q&A How Can I Ensure My Safety?
Audio icon Q&A Is it Possible to Heal All of This Alone?