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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Why Do I Feel Ambivalent About Doing Activities with My Wayward Spouse?	3/25/2026
	Q&A How Can I Help the Betrayed Overcome Comparison With the Affair Partner?	3/25/2026
	Q&A Will Finding Alternative Ways to Meet Needs for Connection Reduce My Perceived 'Need' for Sex?	3/25/2026
	Did You Marry the Wrong Person?	3/18/2026
	Is Childhood Trauma Affecting Your Recovery After an Affair?	3/11/2026
	Q&A How Can I Even Think About Trust Now?	3/10/2026
	Q&A Why Isn't More Time Spent Discovering Why They Had an Affair?	3/10/2026
	Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth?	3/10/2026
	Relapse: Why Can't You Stop?	3/03/2026
	Q&A What Does Genuine Recovery Actually Look Like?	2/26/2026
	Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe?	2/26/2026
	Q&A Can You Explain the FANOS Exercise from EMS Weekend?	2/26/2026
	Q&A Should I Disclose to My Wayward Spouse Who I Shared Details With After Discovery?	2/26/2026
	How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence?	2/18/2026
	Q&A Can Our Relationship Recover from a Substance-Fueled Betrayal?	2/11/2026
	Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile, Given the Waywards Current Emotional State?	2/11/2026
	Q&A How Do We Manage Interactions With Our Children After They Discovered The Infidelity?	2/11/2026
	Q&A How Can You Love Your Partner and Still Have an Affair?	2/11/2026
	Q&A How Do We Find Closure in Our Situation?	2/11/2026
	3 Commitments After Your Affair is Discovered	2/11/2026
	What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components	2/04/2026
	Q&A How Does an Accountability Partnership Work?	2/04/2026
	Q&A Do I Ask These Questions, Even if They May Cause Further Pain?	2/04/2026
	Q&A Should We Wait to Participate in EMS Online?	2/04/2026
	Q&A How Do We Overcome This Destructive Cycle?	2/04/2026
	Q&A What If My Unfaithful Spouse Feels They Do Not Need Therapy or Help?	1/21/2026
	Q&A What Do We Do In A Situation This Earth Shattering?	1/21/2026
	Q&A Can You Remind Me How to Do the Voice of Love/Voice of Fear Exercise?	1/21/2026
	Q&A Is My Spouse's Financial Infidelity Linked to Their Affair or Is It a Separate Issue?	1/21/2026
	Q&A Do you Think It Is Fair To Focus on The Betrayed's Behaviors After D-Day?	1/21/2026
	Denial and Recovery After an Affair	1/21/2026
	Candiece & Cornellus Craft’s Alumni Story	1/14/2026
	Betrayed: What to Know Immediately After Discovery	1/07/2026
	Tips for Surviving the Holidays	12/24/2025
	Q&A How Will These Delays and Trickle Truth Affect Our Recovery Timeline?	12/19/2025
	Q&A How Do I Respond to What Seems Like Selfish Demands From Her to Do Things As We Did Before?	12/19/2025
	Q&A Can You Give More Information on the Love-Addiction Affair Type and What It Is?	12/19/2025
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward When The Wayward Is Not Yet Able to Show Up in the Way The Healing Process Requires?	12/09/2025
	Q&A What Online Therapy Recommendations Do You Have for People Outside of the United States?	12/09/2025
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Rejected When I Sense That Some of My Husband’s Affection is Something He’s Offering Only to Support Me, Rather Than Something He Genuinely Feels?	12/09/2025
	Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset? Part 2.	12/09/2025
	Q&A How Do I Resolve the Conflict Between My Betrayed Husband and My Parents?	12/09/2025
	Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity	11/25/2025
	Q&A How Do I Continue if This is His Mindset?	11/12/2025
	Matt Monteverde's Alumni Story	11/12/2025
	Q&A Am I Crazy to Think This Could Ever Work Again or Is This a Narcissistic Cycle?	11/05/2025
	Q&A Why Does It Seem That the Unfaithful Are More ‘Broken’ than the Betrayed After Everything That They Have Done to Us?	11/05/2025
	Q&A Am I Crazy for Trying to Trust My Spouse?	11/05/2025
	Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain	10/29/2025
	Q&A How Do I Get These Images Out of My Head?	10/22/2025