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	Multiple Affairs, a Child, and a Marriage That Survived All of It with Cindy Beall	10/19/2026
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How I Do Handle the Wayward Only Doing the Bare Minimum?	11/02/2026
	Q&A What Signs Can We Look for That the Process is Working?	11/02/2026
	Q&A Is There A Connection Between Sex Addiction and Limerence?	10/22/2026
	Q&A What's The Point in Continuing to Dig to 'Find Out What Happened' When I've Already Given Full Disclosure?	10/22/2026
	Q&A I'm Doing All I Can to Remain Safe, Grounded, & Healthy - Why Am I Being Blamed for Their Insecurity?	10/22/2026

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4642 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Get Him to See That He Has to Do the Work for Our Marriage to Survive?	9/20/2017
	Q&A Am I on the Right Path to Healing?	9/20/2017
	Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair	9/20/2017
	What Really Happens at EMS Weekend?	9/14/2017
	Q&A Is It Likely That He Still Has Feelings for the Affair Partner?	9/08/2017
	Q&A Can You Offer Options for Support in Our Area?	9/08/2017
	Q&A At What Point Can I Alleviate the Impact of Divorce and Move On?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse Not Compare Himself to My Awful Affair Partner?	9/08/2017
	Q&A Is There a Correlation between Attachment to the Affair Partner and Reluctance of Disclosure?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Do We Work Together after Relapse?	9/08/2017
	Q&A How Long Does It Take for Spouse to Grieve over the Affair Partner?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Could You Better Explain My Mates Participation in My Sexual Identity?	9/06/2017
	Q&A What Is the Role of Parents in the Recovery Process?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Why Doesn't He 'Get It'?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Is This Normal and How Do We Regain Interest and Momentum Again?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Where Do We Go from Here?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do We Re-Frame Our Story?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Would You Please Expand on Your Experiences with Childhood Sexual Abuse and Sex Addiction?	9/06/2017
	Q&A When Will It Start to Get Better?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do I Best Decide If I Stay or If I Go?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Would You Recommend a Post-Nuptial Agreement for Parental Custody?	9/06/2017
	Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle These Triggers?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him?	9/06/2017
	Q&A How Can I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate with My Mate?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Should We Start the Healing Process over Again?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Is This an Unhealthy Way to Heal?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing?	9/06/2017
	Q&A Is There No Longer Hope for Recovery?	9/06/2017
	Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online	8/30/2017
	Q&A Should I Inform the AP's Spouse about Their Affair?	8/18/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Become More Romantic?	8/18/2017
	Q&A What Is Euphoric Recall?	8/18/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Wife Get over Her Anger?	8/18/2017
	Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing?	8/18/2017
	Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return?	8/18/2017
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent?	8/18/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Not Get Annoyed or Impatient with Your Spouse?	8/18/2017
	Bill and Gayle's Mentor Video	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Do I Compete with the Affair Partner?	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Will I Know I Have Forgiven Both My Husband and the AP?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Should We Be Able to Discuss His Current Activities without a Fight?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Should My Husband Be Transparent about His Relationships?	8/16/2017
	Q&A In What Way Will This Impact the Healing of Our Marriage?	8/16/2017
	Q&A Can You Elaborate on the Affair Recovery Timeline?	8/16/2017
	Q&A What Do You Recommend in My Situation?	8/16/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test?	8/16/2017