For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 1209 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Does It Seem That It Is Getting Harder to Overcome the Betrayal? 10/05/2017 Q&A Is My Mates Change of Heart Genuine? 10/05/2017 Q&A Does It Ever Feel Okay to Get the Divorce? 10/05/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle the Trauma of Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do I Get through Each Day Knowing My Mate Doesn't Love Me or Want Me? 9/27/2017 Q&A “What Are Our Chances of Reconciliation? 9/27/2017 Q&A What Do We Do from Here? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Triggers? 9/27/2017 Q&A What Should My next Step Be? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Does Trauma Bonding Impact Recovery? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Do We Handle a Secure Workplace? 9/27/2017 Q&A Are There Similarities between Bipolar Disorder and Infidelity? 9/27/2017 Q&A How Does Telling a Few Trusted Friends about My Husband's Infidelity Help Me Heal? 9/20/2017 Q&A Can You Explain How Compartmentalization Works? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is There Such Thing as A "Fake Recovery"? 9/20/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for My Unfaithful Mate to Act This Way? 9/20/2017 Q&A Am I Living in Denial? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Show Acceptance and What Does It Look Like? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Do I Get Him to See That He Has to Do the Work for Our Marriage to Survive? 9/20/2017 Q&A How Long Does It Take for Spouse to Grieve over the Affair Partner? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Continue Healing When I'm Surrounded by My Mates Negativity? 9/06/2017 Q&A Would You Please Expand on Your Experiences with Childhood Sexual Abuse and Sex Addiction? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Can the Betrayed Handle Triggers during Reconciliation? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Best Decide If I Stay or If I Go? 9/06/2017 Q&A When Is It My Turn for Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A Am I Making a Mistake by Staying with Him? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Can I Overcome Intrusive Thoughts While Being Intimate with My Mate? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should We Start the Healing Process over Again? 9/06/2017 Q&A Will EMDR Help with This Notion? 9/06/2017 Q&A Should the Unfaithful Spouse Lead Our Healing? 9/06/2017 Q&A How Do I Help My Husband Become More Romantic? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Is Euphoric Recall? 8/18/2017 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Personal Healing? 8/18/2017 Q&A Do You Think My Unfaithful Spouse Will Return? 8/18/2017 Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed to Feel Indifferent? 8/18/2017 Q&A Can He Be Safe for Me If He Continues to Use Porn? 7/26/2017 Q&A What Does My Mate Need to Feel Safe? 7/26/2017 Q&A Would It Be worth Shifting the Format of EMS Weekend? 7/26/2017 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here? 7/26/2017 Q&A Did My Choices Contribute to the Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A Is It Possible to Love Your Spouse and Have a Long Term Affair? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Manage My Triggers? 7/26/2017 Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself? 7/26/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Q&A Will Contacting the Affair Partner Help Me Forgive? 3/15/2017 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A How Can I Connect With Others Like Me? 7/26/2016 Q&A How Can I Stop My Negative Thought Pattern? 7/19/2016 Pages« first‹ previous…171819202122232425next ›last »