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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Spouse Causing This Pain Instead of Showing Empathy?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Extend Too Much Grace and Mercy?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph?	11/21/2019
	Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Is My Husband Serious about His Personal Recovery?	11/21/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand My Anger?	11/21/2019
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way?	11/21/2019
	31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1	11/20/2019
	Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy?	11/14/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Decision Making during Recovery?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Getting past This Roadblock in Our Recovery?	11/14/2019
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help EMDR Be More Effective for Me?	11/14/2019
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse?	11/14/2019
	Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing?	11/13/2019
	Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything?	11/13/2019
	Q&A What Is the Best Strategy for Dealing with Lingering Details of an Affair?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband	11/13/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Balancing Recovery and Wanting to Be Joyful and Present at the Same Time?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do We Restore Intimacy after an Affair?	11/13/2019
	Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation?	11/06/2019
	Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness	11/06/2019
	Q&A How Can I Encourage Behavior without Bitterness?	11/05/2019
	Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Working on Our Individual Healing and Healing the Relationship?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Did We Start Recovery Too Late after Discovery?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Can You Recommend Ways to Overcome Vulnerable Thoughts and Feelings?	11/05/2019
	Q&A What Do These Forms of Trauma Treatment Actually Do?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Can You Help with My Confusion?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Heal?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Can I Encourage My Mate to Get Professional Help?	11/05/2019
	Q&A Is It Ever Going to Get Better?	11/05/2019
	Q&A How Do I Co-Parent with Someone I Don’t Respect?	11/05/2019