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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is This a Red Flag?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Is It Time to File for an Annulment?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should I Insist That My Husband Disclose the Affair Partner's Identity?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety in This Situation?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Can Two Simultaneous Traumatic Events Complicate Infidelity Recovery?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle Secrets within My Partner's Family?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Begin to Look at Myself in Recovery?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Are There Cases Where You Cannot Forgive and Forget?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should We Separate Due to the Lack of Safety?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Could the Affair Be a Result of Addiction?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Will Things Ever Get Better for Us?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Can I Retrain My Brain to Not Go into Fight or Flight from the Triggers?	11/01/2018
	Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful	10/31/2018
	Q&A Will the Deep Pain Ever Cease?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Am I Co-Dependent?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries with Friends That Aided the Affair?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is ‘Sleep Masturbation’ a Thing?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Physical Aspect of the Affair?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can We Safely Parent a Child from the Affair?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Might Be Holding My Partner Back?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Are the Benefits of an Infidelity Specific Therapist?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Why Am I Still Struggling with Affection and Intimacy?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Does Living a Life of Recovery Look Like?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Separate?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Why Does It Seem like My Unfaithful Husband Acts like the Betrayed Spouse?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Can Empathy Be Learned?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help Him Truly Get It?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do to Strengthen My Self Image?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Will This End?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is There a Better Way to Explain My Pain to My Mate?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Change Our Dynamic during Separation?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Am I Crazy for Even Trying to Save the Marriage?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Come Back If They Are Not Addressed?	10/17/2018
	Q&A Do I Have Enough Information to Ever Fully Trust Him Again?	10/17/2018