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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Could You Explain What Serial Affairs Means Exactly?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Triggers When the Affair Partner Is Entangled into Many Aspects of Our Lives?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get to the Point Where I Can Give the Marriage the Chance to Rekindle the Love?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Is There a Point in Staying Married since My Husband Is Visiting His Affair Partner and Their Child?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Work towards Healing If I Don't Feel We Are at Ground Zero?	5/03/2017
	Q&A What's Your Advice for Me Now That My Husband Is Working with His Affair Partner Again?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Learn to Cope and Handle the Hurt?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can She Be So Kind Now after the Way She Treated Me Just a Year Ago?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Hear His Heart?	5/03/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do with This Anger and Loss of Trust We Had Worked Hard to Gain?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Express Hurt and Anger but Not Shame My Spouse?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Possibly Turn around the Tone and Momentum?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Should We Discuss My Faults in the Marriage Now or Wait until He Takes Responsibility for His Infidelities?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	5/03/2017
	Q&A Is It Me or My Trauma That's Holding Us Back?	5/03/2017
	Q&A How Can I Feel I'm in an Ideal Marriage If I Can't Expect Sex to Be Ideal?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Can Our Sexual Relationship Heal or Should I Change My Expectations?	4/25/2017
	Q&A What Should I Do Now That I'm Finished with EMS Online?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is an EMS Course an Option with the Affair Partner Still in the Picture?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should My Wife Offer Amends and/or Disclosure to Her Ex Husband?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Trust Someone Who Has Manipulated Me So Much?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Why Do You Say Oral Sex Is 'Always about Sex'?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should I Be Worried That She's Not Sharing Her Intrusive Thoughts with Me?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is Our Church Safe?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is He Relapsing?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should We Change Churches?	4/25/2017
	Q&A He Blames His Addiction on My Lack of Connection and I Blame My Lack of Connection on His Addiction.	4/25/2017
	Q&A When Is It Safe to End a Separation and Come Back Together?	4/25/2017
	Q&A When Will I Stop Being Angry and Start Grieving?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Can We Figure out What the Affair Was About?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Can I Be Assertive without Being Aggressive about His Recovery?	4/25/2017
	Q&A How Do We Get through This without Being Together?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Why Was He a Different Person in His Affairs? Why Can't He Be More Like That with Me?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Withdraw My Commitment for Complete Honesty?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Should I Be Worried That He Hasn't Completed His 4th Step in 18 Months of Recovery?	4/25/2017
	Q&A What Is Shaming?	4/25/2017
	Q&A What Are Possibilities If My Spouse Isn't Comfortable with Group Work?	4/25/2017
	Q&A Is There Hope for This to Get Better?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Is This Normal Limerence or Is He a Love Addict?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Should I Be Worried about a Person from My Mates Past?	4/12/2017
	Q&A How Can I Continue to Support Myself and Keep Our Tenuous Truce without Burning Out?	4/12/2017
	Q&A When Does Anger Become Emotional Abuse?	4/12/2017
	Q&A How Common are Affairs?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Is It Important for the Betrayed Spouse to Get the Details?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Am I Being Passive Agressive?	4/12/2017
	Q&A Should Communication with Counselors Be Enough for Me to Feel Supported?	4/12/2017
	Q&A How Will My Spouse See That I Never Loved My Affair Partner?	4/12/2017
	Q&A What does He Need to Do to Get It?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Can this Be Turned Around?	4/05/2017
	Q&A Will the doubting stop?	4/05/2017