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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent?	6/10/2020
	Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now?	6/10/2020
	Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair	6/10/2020
	Q&A How Can I Be Empathetic without Allowing My Shame to Cause More Damage?	6/09/2020
	Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid?	6/09/2020
	Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean?	6/09/2020
	Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner?	6/09/2020
	Q&A What Does Transparency in Marriage Look Like?	6/09/2020
	Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Hurtful Comments and Lies after a Divorce?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History?	6/03/2020
	Q&A At What Point Is Repair Work, Healing, and Reconciliation Attempts Futile?	6/03/2020
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Recovery during Separation?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Is This a Safe Way of Dealing with This Problem?	6/03/2020
	Q&A What Kind of Affair Was It?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do Multiple Affairs Affect the Recovery Timeline?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Exactly Does One Transform the Pain?	6/03/2020
	Q&A What Would Enabling the Affair Look Like?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Why Is My Wayward Husband Having a Difficult Time with 'Why'?	6/03/2020
	Q&A What Helps the Wayward Spouse Transition from Shame to Empathy?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Start a New Relationship without Fear That This Will Happen Again?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Is There a Difference between Processing Grief and Self-Pity?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Can I Trust My Husband in the Future If Only He and I Know?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Can I Heal When He Still Has to Have Contact with Her Because of Her Job?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with the Grief?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do We Start Fresh in the Midst of Recovery?	6/03/2020
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Splitting the Household While Attempting Recovery?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Recover in a Situation like This?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Can You Offer Encouragement for Me during This Season of Recovery?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Now Distinguish between Truth and Deception?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do You Heal from This Level of Betrayal?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Does the Length of the Affair Have Implications for Our Recovery?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Long Do Couples Stay in a State of Ambivalence?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do We Write a New Story Together?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Is It Too Early to Start to Learn about Ourselves, the Recovery Process, and Grow?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Do I Stop Encouraging My Mate to Participate in Hope for Healing and Quit Communicating with Him?	6/03/2020
	Q&A What Hope Is There to Restoring a Marriage That Has Been a Lie from the Beginning?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Is This Normal Affair Behavior or a Sexual Addiction?	6/03/2020
	Q&A Approximately How Long Should the Reaction Task Last?	6/03/2020
	Is It Normal?	6/03/2020
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Flooding When I Feel My Own Emotions Are Overwhelming?	5/28/2020
	Q&A Are Intrusive Suicidal Thoughts Common?	5/28/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do about My Husband Becoming Extremely Controlling?	5/28/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Betrayed Spouse with Her Anger and Resentment?	5/28/2020
	Q&A How Do I Let Go of the Intrusive Thoughts on My Actions?	5/28/2020