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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Keeps an Emotional Affair from Becoming Sexual?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Give My Mate an Ultimatum?	11/22/2019
	Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle Our Children?	11/22/2019
	Q&A What Do I Do Now That There Is a Child with the Affair Partner?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Could You Elaborate on ‘Affairing Down’?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Will His Rehabilitation Set Our Recovery Back?	11/22/2019
	Q&A When Do I Determine Enough Is Enough?	11/22/2019
	Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Seeing the Affair Partner on a Regular Basis?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Do I Ever Get Those Holidays, That Used to Be Our Holidays, Back?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck?	11/22/2019
	Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage?	11/22/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Spouse Causing This Pain Instead of Showing Empathy?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Extend Too Much Grace and Mercy?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph?	11/21/2019
	Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Is My Husband Serious about His Personal Recovery?	11/21/2019
	Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help?	11/21/2019
	Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand My Anger?	11/21/2019
	Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way?	11/21/2019
	31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1	11/20/2019
	Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy?	11/14/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Decision Making during Recovery?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for Getting past This Roadblock in Our Recovery?	11/14/2019
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help EMDR Be More Effective for Me?	11/14/2019
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse?	11/14/2019
	Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse?	11/14/2019
	Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing?	11/13/2019
	Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything?	11/13/2019
	Q&A What Is the Best Strategy for Dealing with Lingering Details of an Affair?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal?	11/13/2019
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband	11/13/2019
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Balancing Recovery and Wanting to Be Joyful and Present at the Same Time?	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do We Restore Intimacy after an Affair?	11/13/2019
	Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies	11/13/2019
	Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation?	11/06/2019
	Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness	11/06/2019