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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 1/31/2024 Q&A Is My Husband’s Erectile Dysfunction Due to His Affair? 1/30/2024 Q&A What Stops an Emotional Affair from Becoming Physical? How Do I Work through This Chasm in Our View of What Happened? 1/30/2024 Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024 Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »