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Video Q&A How Could He Go from One Affair to Another? 4/08/2022
Video Q&A What Can I Do to Support Him but Also Be Heard? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Get Over This Betrayal? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Ever Get Over His Believing He Loved The Affair Partner? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Communicate So That He Does Not Feel Condemned? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure When My Infidelity Was So Long Ago and I Can’t Remember All the Details? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A As a Betrayed Husband Is It Unrealistic to Want My Wife to Pursue Me Physically? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A What If the Hurt Spouse Needs More Information than the Wayward Spouse Is Willing to Give? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A Can You Please Give Me a Detailed Outline of What a Structured Separation Is and How to Implement It? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do You Heal the Relationship with the Betrayed’s Extended Family? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed? 4/06/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022
Text Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022
Text How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/30/2022
Video Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result? 3/25/2022
Video What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Should I Handle My Spouse Threatening to Harm Me? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Was He Able to Do a 180 Turn on Discovery? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022
Video Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022
Text Is There Hope After Infidelity? 3/02/2022
Text Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 2/23/2022
Video Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A Why Don’t I Respect My Husband? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A How Do I Get past the Affair Partner Continually Sending Me Photos and Descriptive Dialog? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do When My Partner Is in Denial about His Infidelity? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A How do I Heal? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A Is He Just Not Interested in Me or Did He Magically Figure Out How to Treat a Woman? 2/17/2022
Video Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else? 2/02/2022
Video Q&A Am I Being Closed Minded? 2/02/2022
Video Q&A How Should I Deal With Characteristics That I Do Not Possess, Yet Seem to Have Been Sought after by My Spouse in the Affair Partners? 2/02/2022
Video Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart? 2/02/2022
Video Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022
Video Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022

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