All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The 2 Stages of Pain The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Recovery Timeline Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse We Started Well, but... How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 4773 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021 Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021 Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021 Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021 Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021 Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction? 8/02/2021 Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021 Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity? 7/22/2021 Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck? 7/22/2021 Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021 Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021 Q&A Is Location-Sharing and Access to Phones Recommended? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Advice without Feeling He Is Criticizing Me? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Can I Stop the Feeling That I Constantly Need to Check on My Wayward Spouse for Safety? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Best Do I Ask for This Information So That He Understands the Level of Transparency I Need to Feel Safe? 7/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With the Physical Distance between Me and My Husband during Recovery? 7/13/2021 Q&A My Husband Wants to Know Why I Haven't Heard from a Betrayed Woman Who Is Still Married to Her Wayward Spouse? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Sell My House with My Unfaithful Spouse in It? 7/13/2021 Q&A Do I Let Go of My Attachment to Her Now or Wait until Our Courses Are Complete? 7/13/2021 Q&A Can You Recommend a Daily Prayer for Me? 7/08/2021 Q&A Do You Have Any Insights into My Wayward Spouse's Line of Thinking? 7/08/2021 Q&A Will My Husband Love Me Again, the Way He Used To? 7/08/2021 Q&A Any Resources on Becoming More Faith Based? 7/08/2021 Q&A What Are These Somatic Sensations in My Extremities? 7/08/2021 Q&A Where Do I Go from Here When My Spouse Is Mostly Defensive and Blame Shifting? 7/08/2021 Q&A When My Mate Floods, Why Do I Get Distressed In Turn? 7/08/2021 Q&A How Do I Reconcile with the Affair Partner Who Is My Sister? 7/08/2021 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask to the the 40 Cost Assignment from EMS Weekend Again? 7/08/2021 Q&A Do Men Always Want to Have Sex with Other Women? 7/08/2021 Q&A I'm Confused about the Cycle of Grace and Performance Management. Can You Please Explain? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Not Going All-In on Recovery? 6/17/2021 Q&A What Are the Effective Ways of Grieving and How Do I Know Which One Is Best For Me? 6/17/2021 Q&A Are We Trying to Recover Too Fast? 6/17/2021 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Calm After Disclosing the Truth? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Pretend Normal Around Family When Even Thoughts of Them Are Triggering and Intrusive? 6/17/2021 Q&A How Can I Move Forward While Convinced That He Is Still Lying to Me? 6/17/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…456789101112…next ›last »
