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Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 3: Do They Have an Addiction? 10/27/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 2: Entrapped or Enchanted 10/20/2021
Text Why Did They Cheat? Part 1:The Role of Oxytocin 10/13/2021
Video Q&A Is He Sincere? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A What Practical Steps Can I Take To Help Me Overcome the Overwhelming Moments in Recovery? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Not Only Acknowledge the Humiliation upon Our Family and Me, but Also to Fix the Amount of Humiliation He’s Placed on Our Family to Our Town? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With These Graphics Thoughts? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Is It Common for the Wayward Spouse to Go Back to the Affair Partner? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Did I Do the Right Thing by Sharing My Trigger and How Do I Handle This Situation in the Future? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Should I Continue EMS Online on My Own? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A When Does Trauma Turn Into PTSD and Grief Turn Into Depression? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A How Can We Make Progress and How Can I Trust Him? 10/07/2021
Video Q&A Why Is My Husband Deleting Messages to His Mother before I See Them? 10/07/2021
Text Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 2: The Art of Cherishing 9/15/2021
Video Q&A Is It Appropriate to Try Separating While Also Helping the Betrayed Spouse Heal? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A What Do I Do about a Sex Tape That My Spouse Made with the Affair Partner? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Move On When I Feel like He’s Lying about What Really Happened? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A What Progressional Steps Are Most Helpful in Recovery from Pornography Addiction and Extramarital Affairs? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A Should I do EMDR or Harboring Hope First? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A What Is the Role of Dopamine in Marital Sex? 9/08/2021
Video Q&A Can You Provide Clarification on Not Asking Relational Comparison Questions? 9/08/2021
Text Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage 9/08/2021
Text Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021
Text Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021
Video Q&A Where Do I Go After EMS Online? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Should I Let Him Go? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Could He Go from Begging Me to Stay to This? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Is It Possible That the Shame Is Creating a Barrier to Empathy? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Why Does This Hurt Me? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A My Husband Is Still Pursuing His Affair Partner after 13 Months and Is Refusing Any Work. Is There Hope? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle This Conflict between What He’s Saying and What He’s Doing? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Deal With This When I Cannot Reasonably Ask Her to Quit Working nor Can I Check In Frequently to Make Sure It's Not Happening Again? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle Other Counselor’s ‘Okaying’ My Husband’s Continuation of His Rock-Concert Gigs? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner’s Wife about the Affair? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A Will I Ever Know If My Spouse Is No Longer Emotionally Attached to His Affair Partner? 8/17/2021
Video Q&A How Do Handle My Wife Having a Same-Sex Affair? 8/02/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Behave around My Family When My Sister Is the Affair Partner? 8/02/2021
Video Q&A Does My Husband’s Behavior Qualify as Sexual Addiction? 8/02/2021
Video Q&A How Do My Spouse and I Get On the Same Level When It Comes to Appropriate Communication to His Affair Partner about Their Daughter? 8/02/2021
Video Q&A Do You Recommend Joining Harboring Hope or Hope For Healing after Completing EMS Online? 7/22/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Feel Good about Myself Again after What Has Happened? 7/22/2021
Video Q&A How Can We Want a Better Marriage in the Future When I Didn't Think It Was Bad in the First Place? 7/22/2021
Video Q&A Can You Explain Personal Responsibility in Regards to Infidelity? 7/22/2021
Video Q&A Can You Help Me Put a Little Light On Where I Am Stuck? 7/22/2021
Video Q&A How Can I Now Be the Bad Guy? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Do You Advise Me to Have a Session with My Psychologist, Family, And Friends to Discuss the Things He Has Said About Me? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Should I Share the Date I Have Set For Making a Decision with My Husband? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Is Keeping Him from Moving Home Making Things Worse? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A How Do I Handle My Healing and My Husband? 7/13/2021
Video Q&A Why Did My Husband Have Such a Seemingly Lame Affair? 7/13/2021

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