All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Know He's Really Choosing Me? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Resources, Books, Videos or Programs Would You Suggest For Grown Children Who Just Found Out about Their Father's Infidelity? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Respect My Husband Again or Decide If I Really Want to Stay Knowing We May Never Be Fully Healed? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021 Q&A Why Should I Believe My Husband Is Really Committed to Me When He Would Go Out of His Way for the Affair Partner, but Not for Me? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Go Back to Normal Sexual Behavior with My Spouse When My Spouse Told Me the Affair Partner Was Better Than Me in Bed and Also Had a Bigger Male Anatomy? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life? 4/29/2021 Q&A Can You Explain the Similarities and Differences between Confessing, Acknowledgement and Accountability? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Does the Addition of Domestic Violence Influence Affair Recovery? 4/29/2021 Q&A Does Alcohol Really Play That Much of a Part in Infidelity? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is This the Healthiest Advice or Do I Need to Seek Different Therapist for Individual Counseling? 4/22/2021 Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Take the Sex Addiction Survey Test Again with Me Assisting? 4/22/2021 Q&A Can You Explain Why the Recovery Rate Is Lower For Infidelity Early in Marriage? 4/22/2021 Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women? 4/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021 Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin? 4/13/2021 Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head? 4/13/2021 Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Q&A Do You Classify This as a Sexual Addiction or Is This a Different Type of Affair? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Is the Definition of an Emotional Affair? 4/13/2021 Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space? 4/13/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A Should We Try to Find New Therapist? 3/25/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail? 3/25/2021 Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Someone Who Feels like Their Main Support Group Is Coming to a Close When the Process Is Just Beginning? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change? 3/22/2021 Q&A How do I Let Go of This Painful Reminder? 3/22/2021 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé? 3/22/2021 Q&A Can a Relationship Born Out of Infidelity Last? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Can I Trust God and Have Faith in Him? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband? 3/09/2021 Q&A Was He Hoping to Get Caught in an Effort to Have Me End the Marriage? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/09/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…111213141516171819…next ›last »