All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? The Problem with Forgiveness The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For? 12/17/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When My Teenage Daughters Think I Am the One Refusing to Forgive My Husband and Work on the Marriage, 'Even Though Their Dad Is Trying to Make It up to Me'? 12/17/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure? 12/17/2020 Q&A Should We Express What We Need From Each Other? 12/09/2020 Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing? 12/09/2020 Q&A How Do You Know When Too Much Damage Has Occurred to Overcome? 12/09/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Q&A What is Objectification? 12/01/2020 Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible? 12/01/2020 Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break? 11/24/2020 Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help? 11/24/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could You Help? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement? 11/18/2020 Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness? 11/18/2020 Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do? 11/18/2020 Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved? 11/18/2020 Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery? 11/18/2020 Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner? 11/18/2020 Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/18/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair? 11/12/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie? 10/29/2020 Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process? 10/29/2020 Q&A What Do You Do When There Is an outside Child the Same Age as Your Own from the Affair? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal with Defensiveness? 10/29/2020 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph? 10/29/2020 Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It? 10/29/2020 Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him? 10/29/2020 Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair? 10/22/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly? 10/22/2020 Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs? 10/22/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122…next ›last »