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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is My Wife's On-Going Ambivalence Towards Our Relationship the Best That I Can Hope For?	12/17/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Teenage Daughters Think I Am the One Refusing to Forgive My Husband and Work on the Marriage, 'Even Though Their Dad Is Trying to Make It up to Me'?	12/17/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward with My Husband If There Is No Disclosure?	12/17/2020
	Q&A Should We Express What We Need From Each Other?	12/09/2020
	Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing?	12/09/2020
	Q&A How Do You Know When Too Much Damage Has Occurred to Overcome?	12/09/2020
	The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy	12/02/2020
	Q&A What is Objectification?	12/01/2020
	Q&A Is Reconciliation Possible?	12/01/2020
	Q&A How Does the Wayward Spouse Deal with the In-Then-Out Behavior of Their Spouse?	11/24/2020
	Q&A How Much Pain Can One Take before They Break?	11/24/2020
	Q&A How Do I Proceed with Recovery Work When the Betrayed Doesn't Want to Get Help?	11/24/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do When Exercise Is a Trigger?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Is This Ultimatum Unreasonable?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Could You Help?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Should I Ask Him to Hear My Story?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Is It Time to Just Formally End My Marriage?	11/18/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do with His Lapse in Judgement?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Must I Be Completely Finished with the Grieving Task before I Can Move to Forgiveness?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Is It Wrong to Ask My Husband to Understand the Affair Partner's Personality Disorder?	11/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Figure Out What to Do?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Should He Leave His Job?	11/18/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do with an Ambivalent Partner When a Baby Is Involved?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Could This Be Sex Addiction and How Is That Different for Recovery?	11/18/2020
	Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Be Friends with My Affair Partner Again?	11/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Know if My Husband Has Completely Detoxed From the Affair Partner?	11/18/2020
	Q&A What Is the Census of Disclosing the Affair to the Affair Partner's Spouse?	11/18/2020
	Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do	11/18/2020
	Q&A How Do I Remember Details of the Affair That I Seem to have Repressed?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Do I Address My Overwhelming Fear?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again?	11/12/2020
	Q&A What Can I Do about My Defensive Husband That Doesn't Follow through on His Commitments to the Marriage?	11/12/2020
	Q&A What Do I Do about a Husband That Does Not Want to Work on Himself?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Do I Move on with My Wayward Husband?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Should the Betrayed Respond When the Wayward Spouse Lashes Out?	11/12/2020
	Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown?	11/12/2020
	Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair?	11/12/2020
	Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help	11/11/2020
	Q&A How Can He Do All of This Good Recovery Work and Still Lie?	10/29/2020
	Q&A Does This Program Offer Someone Who Can Sit with Us through the Disclosure Process?	10/29/2020
	Q&A What Do You Do When There Is an outside Child the Same Age as Your Own from the Affair?	10/29/2020
	Q&A How Do We Deal with Defensiveness?	10/29/2020
	Q&A Is It Appropriate to Ask the Wayward Spouse to Take a Polygraph?	10/29/2020
	Q&A How Does He Change His Behavior If He Can Not See Himself Doing It?	10/29/2020
	Q&A To Save My Marriage, Do I Have to Agree with Him?	10/29/2020
	Q&A Am I Being Too Hard or Unreasonable?	10/22/2020
	Q&A What Would Be a Good Plan for Me Going Forward?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is This Approach Sufficient for Healing Our Marriage after His 7-Year Affair?	10/22/2020
	Q&A Is It Possible for an Addiction of This Severity to Change So Quickly?	10/22/2020
	Q&A How Can I Respect My Husband after What He Has Done to Me and Our Family after Multiple Lies, Betrayal, and Affairs?	10/22/2020