All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Regain Respect and Admiration for My Husband? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020 Q&A What More Can I Do to Overcome This Trauma? 7/28/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to Heal and Overcome Triggers If the Affair Partner Continues to Flirt with My Husband? 7/16/2020 Q&A Why Do I, as the Wayward Spouse, Treat My Wife with Hateful and Cruel Comments When We Argue? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy? 7/16/2020 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Do You Deal with Triggers That Just Can't Be Avoided? 7/16/2020 Q&A What Continued Work Do You Recommend for the Years to Come? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Long Do You Suggest Waiting, Post Discovery, to Have a Child Together? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is This a Psychological Behavior You Have Seen Before? 7/09/2020 Q&A Can You Help with Intrusive Thoughts? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Do You Do for the Wayward Spouse's Trauma? 7/09/2020 Q&A As the Wayward Spouse, How Can I Rebuild Trust with My Husband? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is There Any Hope for a Wayward Spouse, Who Pretends He Has Stopped Communication with the Affair Partner, but Refuses to Be Accountable and Continues to Gaslight? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can a Betrayed Spouse Be Happier Than They Were before the Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Happens If My Spouse Won't Acknowledge the Relationship as an Affair? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Unstuck? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Get Rid of the Compulsion to Contact My Wayward Spouse? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Expect Him to Work His Way Back to My Heart? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is the Relationship Worth Salvaging? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Wanting and Getting Comfort From My Spouse Who Is the One That Caused So Much Pain? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Heal and Move Forward in My Marriage Without Knowing Why He Made Those Choices? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Q&A At What Point Does a Serious Case of Narcissism in the Unfaithful Need to Be Considered Unsafe for the Betrayed Spouse to Even Consider Reconciliation? 7/09/2020 Q&A Should I Be Expected to Provide Affair-Partner-Level Intensity? 7/09/2020 Q&A Can Someone Who Has Been a Con Ever Be Trusted? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Being Unreasonable in My Demand? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Have Multiple Affair Types? 7/09/2020 Q&A Will He Always Have Feelings for the Affair Partner? 7/09/2020 Q&A Does an Emotional Affair Affect Your Sex Life? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Get Him to Understand? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Triggers and Reminders? 7/09/2020 Q&A When Will the Urge to Snoop End? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Give 100% to My Mate during the Hard Moments? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Stop All-Or-Nothing Thinking? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Do I Do When the Wayward Spouse Remains Hidden? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do We Deal With Deflection and Blame? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Wife When She Assumes I Had an Emotional Relationship With a Coworker? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Should We Do With New Surprising Triggers? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Entering Into a Contract on a New Home Early in Recovery? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Happens If a Husband and Wife Differ on What Constitutes Out of Line Behavior? 7/02/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Finding the Right Therapist? 7/02/2020 Q&A How Can I Trust a Man That Has Cheated Most of Our Marriage? 6/25/2020 Q&A How Can I Tell If It's the Hurt and Pain or If She Really Wants a Divorce? 6/25/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…181920212223242526…next ›last »
