All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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