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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Can I Heal If My Husband Is Not Completely Safe? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Is the True Meaning of ‘Being Safe’ for the Injured Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Set Effective Boundaries as Someone Who Is Conflict Avoidant? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is It Time to Let Go and Move On? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do about My Wayward Spouse's Regression during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do We Keep the Affair Partner from Pursuing My Spouse? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Finding Community during Recovery? 2/14/2020 Q&A Why Shouldn't the Betrayed Spouse Confront the Affair Partner? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle the Fact That My Husband’s ‘Safe Place’ for Porn and Masturbation Has Primarily Been at Work? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Get over My Husband's past Behavior? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Should I Do? 2/14/2020 Q&A Is the Affair a Result of My Mates Addiction Issues? 2/14/2020 Q&A How Do I Protect Myself from Getting an STD If My Husband Has Another Affair Again? 2/14/2020 Q&A What Do We Do After EMS Online? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is It Wise to Refrain from Sex with My Mate in This Situation? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Move on after He Was so Intentional in Hurting Me? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Anxiety as My Wife Learns How to Share? 2/11/2020 Q&A Is There Any Reason for Me to Contact My Mates Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband's Response to the Truth in Love Exercise? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Can I Get My Wayward Spouse to End the Affair? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 2/11/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 Q&A Will I Ever Be Able to See the Time during the Affair as Something Other Than Tainted or Fake? 2/11/2020 Q&A How Do I Know She Believes What I Say? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Do I Keep Looking for Hope When There's No Reason Too? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is Hindering My Mate from Showing Empathy? 1/31/2020 Q&A When and How Do We Work through Triggers and Who Pursues Who in Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Confront My Husband? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Creating Safety with This Particular Trigger? 1/31/2020 Q&A Should My Mate Be Cautious of the Comparison Questions She Is Asking? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Long Does It Take to Become a New Person in Recovery? 1/31/2020 Q&A Why Did His Guilt over the Affair Partner Win out over Me and Our Marriage? 1/31/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Things I Think He Might Have Said to Her? 1/31/2020 Q&A What Is the Best Next Step for Us in Light of This Disclosure? 1/16/2020 Q&A Was I Wrong for Questioning Him or Is There a Better Way I Could’ve Approached This? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Is ‘Therapeutic Disclosure’ as It Relates to Pre-Polygraph Testing? 1/16/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency, Accountability, and External Controls Look like in Recovery? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Husband Sharing Specific Details about Me with His Affair Partner? 1/16/2020 Q&A When Do I Know That It’s Time for Me to Leave? 1/16/2020 Q&A How Do I Get past the Different Versions of the Story? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Ever Trust Again without Knowing the Full Truth? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Do We Set Boundaries with Family Members? 1/09/2020 Q&A How Do We Restore Trust? 1/09/2020 Q&A Who Am I to Get Triggered When She's the One Who Was Betrayed? 1/09/2020 Q&A Where Can I Get Help for My Trauma? 1/09/2020 Q&A How to I Transform My Flooding and Anger so That I Stop Transmitting It? 1/03/2020 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much from My Wayward Spouse? 1/03/2020 Q&A I Don't Want to Create a New Marriage, I Want My Old Marriage Back. How Do I Move Forward? 1/03/2020 Q&A Why Wasn't My Husband Honest with Me? 1/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Overcome My Sexual Fantasies? 1/03/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…232425262728293031…next ›last »
