All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened? 11/22/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends? 11/22/2019 Q&A Is Compatibility More Important Than Love for a Successful Marriage? 11/22/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Causing This Pain Instead of Showing Empathy? 11/21/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Extend Too Much Grace and Mercy? 11/21/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Safely Reaching Full Disclosure without a Polygraph? 11/21/2019 Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Does This Ever Completely Go Away? 11/21/2019 Q&A Is My Husband Serious about His Personal Recovery? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Isn't Willing to Get Help? 11/21/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Better Understand My Anger? 11/21/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward in a Healthy and Safe Way? 11/21/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019 Q&A How Do I Push Forward in Recovery When I Feel That My Mate Isn't Trust Worthy? 11/14/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Decision Making during Recovery? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can You Help My Understand Why the Empathy Exercises Have Been so Difficult for My Mate? 11/14/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Getting past This Roadblock in Our Recovery? 11/14/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Help EMDR Be More Effective for Me? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Move Past the Shock of This? 11/14/2019 Q&A Should We Continue with the Course Work in Spite of Relapse? 11/14/2019 Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started? 11/13/2019 Q&A Why Does My Behavior Reflect That I've Learned Nothing? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Reach Ground Zero If My Spouse Doesn’t Believe That I’ve Told Him Everything? 11/13/2019 Q&A What Is the Best Strategy for Dealing with Lingering Details of an Affair? 11/13/2019 Q&A Is This an Acceptable Behavior for the Recovery Process? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal? 11/13/2019 Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband 11/13/2019 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Balancing Recovery and Wanting to Be Joyful and Present at the Same Time? 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do We Restore Intimacy after an Affair? 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation? 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage Behavior without Bitterness? 11/05/2019 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Working on Our Individual Healing and Healing the Relationship? 11/05/2019 Q&A Did We Start Recovery Too Late after Discovery? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit? 11/05/2019 Q&A Why Can't My Mate Be Honest? 11/05/2019 Q&A Can You Recommend Ways to Overcome Vulnerable Thoughts and Feelings? 11/05/2019 Q&A What Do These Forms of Trauma Treatment Actually Do? 11/05/2019 Q&A Can You Help with My Confusion? 11/05/2019 Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Heal? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage My Mate to Get Professional Help? 11/05/2019 Q&A Is It Ever Going to Get Better? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Co-Parent with Someone I Don’t Respect? 11/05/2019 Q&A Can You Explain What the LIFE Exercise is? 11/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Get the Safety I Need in Our Recovery? 11/05/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…252627282930313233…next ›last »
