All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 5051 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal with My Sex Addict Husband Pouting Because I Do Not Want to Have Sex with Him? 9/26/2019 Q&A Can Sex during Recovery Have an Adverse Effect on Our Healing? 9/26/2019 Q&A Does Every Man Masturbate like This? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for Our Marriage in This Circumstance? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe through All of This? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Will I Know If It's Safe for My Spouse to Move Back in with Me? 9/26/2019 Q&A Do I Need to Have My Mate Move Out? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe about My Husband Having Female Friends at Work? 9/26/2019 Q&A Is My Situation a Common One? 9/26/2019 Q&A Will We Ever Have a Healthy Marriage? 9/26/2019 Q&A What Is Sexual Imprinting and Its Impact on Sex in a Marriage? 9/26/2019 Q&A Did My Spouse Affair Down? 9/26/2019 Q&A As I Move Forward in Recovery, I Feel That I No Longer Love My Mate. Can You Provide Direction? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome This Overwhelming Trigger? 9/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Survive If I Have to Live with the Affair Partner? 9/18/2019 Q&A Should I Put a Hold on the Divorce If My Mate Is Willing to Participate in Hope for Healing? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When I Don't Have Resources in My Area? 9/18/2019 Q&A Am I Dealing with a Spouse Who Has OCD or Is a Narcissist? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Can I Heal in This Situation? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Applications and Filters Do You Recommend to Keep Us Safe? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Make Sense of My Mates Relapse? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Return the Honor and the Innocence of Marriage to My Husband? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Let Go of My Doubts and Hyper-Vigilance? 9/18/2019 Q&A Do All Men Compartmentalize? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Matters More in Recovery, Intention or Impact? 9/18/2019 Q&A Will Seeing a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Cause More Harm Than Good? 9/18/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Recover to Quickly? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from My Mates Suicide during Recovery? 9/18/2019 Q&A What Do You Recommend for Our In-House-Separation? 9/18/2019 Q&A Why Would the Wayward Spouse Compare Their Pain with My Pain? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me? 9/18/2019 Q&A Is It My Responsibility to Initiate at This Point in Our Healing? 9/18/2019 Q&A Should I Cancel My Polygraph Due to My Anxiety Level? 9/18/2019 Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available? 9/18/2019 Q&A Am I Controlling My Spouse or Is This the Appropriate Way to Set Boundaries? 9/18/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Q&A At What Point Do You Give up on Your Spouse? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Show Grace without Being Taken Advantage Of? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can I Ever Get Passed Sharing My Daughter with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A What Can I Do to Keep These Triggers from Impacting Me so Much? 9/13/2019 Q&A Are There Differences in Recovery Based on When Discovery Happens? 9/13/2019 Q&A Is It Possible to Recover Hope for Something New? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Stay Safe When My Mate Is Still Ambivalent? 9/13/2019 Q&A Can Minimizing Childhood Trauma Affect the Ability to Take Responsibility and Show Empathy during Recovery? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner? 9/13/2019 Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me? 9/13/2019 Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit? 9/13/2019 Q&A How Long Will It Take for My Husband to Retrain His Thinking? 9/13/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…282930313233343536…next ›last »