All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? 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A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Apply Worton's Third Task to Infidelity? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can My Mate Prefer Anything about the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate Concerns without Creating Conflict? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Process the Pain during the Divorce Process? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse So Stuck on the Affair Partner? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage the Thoughts of Comparison? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do We Reach Full Disclosure with Pornography? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Share My Emotions without Triggering My Partners Shame? 7/03/2019 Q&A Do You Have Any Words of Wisdom for Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Touch Me? 7/03/2019 Q&A Am I Safe? 7/03/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to See the Affair Partner One Last Time? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts in Regards to My Issue? 7/03/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about My Behavior? 7/03/2019 Q&A Do You Have Advice for Those Who Divorce after Infidelity? 7/03/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Disclosure? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Resistance to Re-Engaging Sexually with My Mate? 6/26/2019 Q&A Why Is My Spouse Not Being Romantic This Far into Recovery? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Do I Own My Part in the Marriage Dynamic If I’m Not Aware of It? 6/26/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A Should I Give My Mate Information They Specifically Asked Me Not to Share? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Protect My Kids from the Damage of Divorce? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate to My Spouse That I Am Not Excusing My Affair Partner’s Part in the Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Feel Safe If My Spouse Isn't as Committed to Recovery as I Am? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Can I Make It Clear That I'm Choosing by Mate over the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Can You Give Me Hope in Light of My Wayward Spouse Choosing Divorce? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Keep from Getting Resentful? 6/19/2019 Q&A Did God Really Lead My Spouse to Have an Affair? 6/19/2019 Q&A What Do I Believe? 6/19/2019 Q&A Can Borderline Personality Disorder Be Brought on by Infidelity? 6/19/2019 Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Sexual Challenges? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Regain a Healthy World View Again towards Men? 6/11/2019 Q&A Am I Wrong for Asking My Husband to Be Transparent? 6/11/2019 Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There Any Hope for Truth? 6/11/2019 Q&A Am I Being Enabling? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Manage Myself? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries around Ambivalence? 6/11/2019 Q&A Should We Create a New Anniversary Date? 6/11/2019 Q&A Are My Mates Actions a Result of Poor Self Esteem? 6/11/2019 Q&A How to I Process My Indecision in a Healthy Way? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There a Chance for Forgiveness or Reconciliation? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Rage Resulting from the Affair? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is There Hope for Us? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can We Move Forward When a Child Has Been Conceived with the Affair Partner? 6/11/2019 Q&A Is It Better to Wait for Healing in the Marriage to Resume Intimacy? 6/11/2019 Q&A Will It Ever Be Possible to Reconcile? 6/11/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…313233343536373839…next ›last »