All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Healing After An Affair 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help? 11/28/2018 Q&A Why Isn’t My Mate Showing Empathy? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should We Participate in EMS Online before Seeking Individual Healing? 11/26/2018 Q&A Is Our Marriage Doomed Because My Mate Is Unwilling to Make Amends? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Interpret and Handle My Unfaithful Husband’s Lack of Pursuit and Desire for Me? 11/26/2018 Q&A Should I Suggest Addiction Counseling to My Mate? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Ambivalence? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Are Fear and Desire Related? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Find a Credible Polygrapher in My Area and Should I Use One? 11/26/2018 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure? 11/26/2018 Q&A Am I Wrong for Feeling Exhausted? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Respond to Relapse? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Reconnect to the Good Memories? 11/26/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Separation? 11/26/2018 Q&A Are There Certain Personalities That Cannot Heal from Infidelity? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate Not to Contact Her Affair Partner for Closure? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use? 11/21/2018 Q&A What Role Does an Alcoholic as the Betrayed Play in Recovery? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Feelings Back for My Husband? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details? 11/21/2018 Q&A Will Affair Recovery Be Enough for Me to Heal? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Agree to Renew Our Vows? 11/21/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Empathy? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Tension of Seemingly Opposite Suggestions for the Recovery Process? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? 11/07/2018 Q&A Can You Help Me Wade through My Mate's Ambivalence? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Break My Cycle of Lying? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do We Navigate Forgiveness with outside Parties? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Process My Feelings for the Affair Partner? 11/07/2018 Q&A Am I Shaming My Husband When I Bring up His past Behaviors? 11/07/2018 Q&A At What Point Do I Stop Trying? 11/07/2018 Q&A Will Feelings for the Affair Partner Ever Fade? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Do You Do When the Betrayed Spouse Doesn’t Believe Your Story? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do Sex Addicts Develop a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Their Mate? 11/07/2018 Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set? 11/01/2018 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence? 11/01/2018 Q&A Can We Ever Have Trust Again after All This? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Children Cope? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts? 11/01/2018 Q&A Is This a Normal Reaction of Shame and Guilt? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner? 11/01/2018 Q&A What Might Be Holding My Spouse Back? 11/01/2018 Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Safety in My Situation? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Paint a New Picture of Our Marriage? 11/01/2018 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Move past Their Resentments? 11/01/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…394041424344454647…next ›last »