All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Could You? 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How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness The Power of Small Groups 5033 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal with My Betrayed Spouse's Ambivalence? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Get to a Safe Place with Details I Can't Remember? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Safe It Is for Me to Keep Racking up the Memories of All Accounts? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Convey That I Still Loved My Spouse during My Affair? 2/06/2019 Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Having Trouble Facing This? 2/06/2019 Q&A Am I Interpreting Free Will Wrong? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Come Back from a Relapse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Is My Mate Really Trying to Recover? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Deal with Feelings of Abandonment When We Chose Not to Be Intimate? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with My Mates Ambivalence? 2/06/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Fantasies during Intimacy? 2/06/2019 Q&A Should I Stay with My Wayward Spouse? 2/06/2019 Q&A Can I Every Truly Be Safe for My Spouse? 1/30/2019 Q&A Should I Tell the Affair Partner about an STD? 1/30/2019 Q&A Where Is God in All of This? 1/30/2019 Q&A Are You Familiar with the Enneagram of Personality? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Did This Happen When I Did Everything Right? 1/30/2019 Q&A Can I Get over an Affair Partner I Work With? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Can I Find Better Accountability and Create Safety? 1/30/2019 Q&A Can You Truly Love Someone Else If You Don't Love Yourself First? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If My Husband Is a Sex Addict? 1/30/2019 Q&A How Do We Handle Closure with the Affair Partner? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Does My Husband Use Distraction and Blame to Get Himself out of Owning What He’s Done? 1/30/2019 Q&A Why Does My Mate Say He Can't Remember Details of the Affair? 1/30/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Q&A Is It Better to Be Able to Talk about the Affair Partner or to Act like They Never Existed? 1/28/2019 Q&A Is His Explanation Probable? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do We Overcome Such Destructive Behavior? 1/28/2019 Q&A Can You Provide Me with Objective Perspective? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do You Know in Your Heart That You Need to Call It Quits? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal from Multiple Traumatic Events? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Know He Really Wants Me and to Save Our Marriage and Not Just Save His Image? 1/28/2019 Q&A Will I Ever See My Husband the Way I Once Did? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Heal When Time Has Been Taken from Me? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Respond to My Husband's Outburst? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Maintain a Realistic View of My Spouse, Marriage and Expectations in Life Married to a Sex Addict? 1/28/2019 Q&A What Is Something That Couple's Do to Take Back Anniversary Dates? 1/28/2019 Q&A Is There Any Reason to Still Be Here? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should I Consider Counseling? 1/28/2019 Q&A Why Seek Recovery for a Marriage That Was Always Bad? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should My Husband Be Evaluated for Sexual Addiction? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Define My Losses? 1/28/2019 Q&A How Do I Grieve and Let Go? 1/28/2019 Q&A Does My Husband Have an Addiction? 1/28/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts about Our Dilemma? 1/28/2019 Q&A Should We Set Boundaries with Masturbation in Marriage? 1/28/2019 Q&A Will I Be Able to Find Joy Again? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince My Husband I Did Love Him and Still Do? 1/23/2019 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Process Grief? 1/23/2019 Q&A Is It Okay to Ask for 90 Days of Abstinence? 1/23/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…373839404142434445…next ›last »