All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 4994 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Should How Do You Restore a Loveless Marriage after an Affair? 6/27/2018 Q&A Should I Consider Separation? 6/27/2018 Q&A I'm Beginning to Lose Hope, Should I Stay or Should I Go? 6/27/2018 Q&A Do You Really Believe God Created Marriage to Make Us Miserable? 6/27/2018 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Q&A Should We Separate for a While? 6/15/2018 Q&A Can You Give Us Guidance on Reaching Full Disclosure? 6/15/2018 Q&A Will the Respect I Had for My Spouse Come Back over Time? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Can We Protect Our Safety Protocol While Traveling? 6/15/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Get a Divorce? 6/15/2018 Q&A Are There Boundaries That Need to Be Followed as an Accountability Partner? 6/15/2018 Q&A How Do I Trust That I Truly Have All the Information? 6/15/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Q&A How Should I Respond to My Wife's Feelings about Saving the Marriage? 6/08/2018 Q&A Do You Have Additional Resources for Overcoming Gaslighting? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Can I Help My Unfaithful Wife Figure out Why She Had the Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Is the Difference between the ‘Right Person’ and the ‘Right Fit’? 6/08/2018 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Interact with the Family Members That Helped Hide My Mates Affair? 6/08/2018 Q&A What Should Our Next Step Be? 6/08/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Husband Won't Believe Me. How Can We Reach Full Disclosure? 6/08/2018 Q&A Why Does My Husband Act like I’m the One with the Problem? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husbands Relapse? 6/07/2018 Q&A What's the Difference between Feeling Remorse for Causing Me Pain and Having Remorse for Being with the Other Person? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Does Forgiveness Look like after Multiple Relapses? 6/07/2018 Q&A What Can I Do to Help My Unfaithful Mate through the Recovery Process? 6/07/2018 Q&A Why Do I Feel like I Want to Leave When My Spouse Is Doing the Right Work? 6/07/2018 Q&A Is It Possible That He Is Being Truthful? 6/07/2018 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust and Become Vulnerable Again? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can Someone with Self-Awareness and Boundaries Still Relapse? 6/06/2018 Q&A My Betrayed Spouse Wants Me to Contact the Affair Partner. What Should I Do? 6/06/2018 Q&A Can a Wife Ever Get over Her Husband Having Sex with the Affair Partner in Their Home? 6/06/2018 Q&A Is Acknowledging and Working on the Unconscious Brain Important? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Clean up the Financial Mess His Affair Has Created? 6/06/2018 Q&A Why Does His Shame Trump My Pain? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Do I Manage the Feeling That I Will Never Be Enough? 6/06/2018 Q&A How Can I Protect My Children from Pornography? 6/06/2018 Q&A Will My Feelings Come Back for My Betrayed Husband? 5/23/2018 Q&A Should We Get a New Counselor? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mates Lack of Empathy? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Can My Honor Be Restored at My Unfaithful Spouse's Workplace? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is Calling This a ‘Mistake’ Minimization? 5/23/2018 Q&A Is My Husband Relapsing? 5/23/2018 Q&A My Mate Doesn't Believe I've Disclosed Everything, What Should I Do? 5/23/2018 Q&A Does My Mate 'Get It' or Is He Justifying His Actions? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Get to a Place Where I'm Not so Jaded? 5/23/2018 Q&A Was His Desire for This Type of Porn Changing His Brain? 5/23/2018 Q&A How Do I Convey Grief about My Betrayal Rather than Shame? 5/23/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Q&A Why Did My Mate Continue to Repeat the Same Patterns with the Affair Partner? 5/21/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…454647484950515253…next ›last »