For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available?
Video icon Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me?
Video icon Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit?
Video icon Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them?
Video icon Q&A How Is This Not about Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Betrayal by My Mate’s College Aged Daughter?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To?
Text icon Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work.
Video icon Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Persuade My Husband That the Affair Partner Is More Than Just a Friend?
Video icon Q&A Are My Doubts and Feelings Normal?
Video icon Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help?
Video icon Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort?
Video icon Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Deal with a Charismatic, Controlling, Narcissistic Man?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down?
Video icon Q&A Should the Wayward Wife Be Rewarded by Taking My Choice Away from Me Many Years Ago?
Video icon Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out?
Video icon Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing?
Text icon Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey
Video icon Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option?
Video icon Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome the Fear That This Will Happen Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Grief for the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened?
Video icon Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse?