For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 1292 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Grief for the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened? 5/21/2019 Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Thoughts of Comparison? 5/15/2019 Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do You Know When You're Done? 4/10/2019 Q&A When Do You Give up on the Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019 Q&A Am I Deceiving Myself? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Tell the Truth? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Reoccurring Reminders? 4/10/2019 Q&A How Long Should I Wait for the Wayward to Fight for the Marriage? 4/03/2019 Q&A Will I Ever Feel Okay in My Own Skin Again? 4/03/2019 Q&A How Can I Visit Certain Places without Being Triggered? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Forgive the Unforgivable? 3/27/2019 Q&A How Do I Know If I Can Trust My Own Judgement? 3/20/2019 Q&A How Long Will the Triggers Continue? 3/20/2019 Q&A Why Am I so Concerned About the Affair Partner? 3/20/2019 Q&A Is This Blame Shifting? 3/20/2019 Q&A Should I Try to Make Amends for My Part in the Failed Recovery? 3/13/2019 Q&A Why Is My Resentment Growing? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Can I Believe That My Mate Really Loved Me during Their Affair? 3/06/2019 Q&A How Does a Betrayed Spouse Get past the Hurtful Words Said by the Wayward Spouse? 3/04/2019 Q&A How Can I Cleanse My Body and Heart? 2/22/2019 Q&A Am I Stuck? 2/20/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…121314151617181920…next ›last »