For The Hurt Spouse

There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse.

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Video icon Q&A My Husband Is Having a Hard Time Recommitting. What Can I Do?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Overcome the Intrusive Thoughts during the Holidays?
Video icon Q&A Is It Normal to Feel Numb after so Much Trickle Truth?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Begin to Trust with All of the Trickle Truth Happening?
Video icon Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Rebuilding My Self-Image?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Know Who My Mate Really Is?
Video icon Q&A (HH) What Is Your Opinion on Attending My Mates Therapy Sessions?
Video icon Q&A Could You Talk a Little Bit about Emotional Self-Regulation?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Get Past Being Stuck?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Ever Desire My Mate When I Can't Forget What Happened?
Video icon Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Mate Won't Make Amends?
Video icon Q&A At What Point Do the Thoughts, Feelings, and Mental Pictures Go Away?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Feel Safe after My Mates Relapse?
Video icon Q&A Can My Mate Ever Be Safe Again?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get over Never Knowing When the Affair Started?
Video icon Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Truly Believes They Do Not Have a Problem or Addiction?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Recover from a Double Betrayal?
Video icon Q&A Will My Husband Ever Stop Thinking of His Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Extend Grace to My Wayward Husband
Video icon Q&A How Do I Wrap My Head around This When Nothing Seems to Fit Our Situation?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from Losing My Family Unit?
Video icon Q&A Do You Have Suggestions for Overcoming Comparison Thoughts?
Video icon Q&A Do You Recommend That I Try to Convince My Mate to Push through Our Healing and Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect Myself While Working Towards Healing?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Do If My Wife Still Wants to Spend Time with Her Accomplice in Her Affair?
Text icon Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist
Video icon Q&A Why Did My Mate Take the Affair Partner to the Same Places He Has Taken Me?
Text icon Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison
Video icon Q&A Should I Allow My Husband to Choose His Polygrapher?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Manage the Losses of Everything My Husband Gave Away?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Trust What the Wayward Spouse Is Disclosing to Me?
Video icon Q&A How Long Do I Wait for the Wayward Spouse to Be Emotionally Available?
Video icon Q&A What Would You Recommend for Spouses Who Lose Their Mate to Suicide during Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Heal from the Intrusive Thoughts That Came as Result of Recording and Listening to My Mates Conversations with the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Should I Have the Wayward Spouse Break off the Affair in Front of Me?
Video icon Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit?
Video icon Q&A Is There Something Wrong with Me Because I Still Love in Spite of All This?
Video icon Q&A Why Is My Spouse Having a Difficult Time with Empathy When I'm Hurting?
Video icon Q&A Why Can't My Spouse See How They Could've Prevented Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Can I Address the Anger and Defensiveness Coming from the Wayward Spouse?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle My Husband’s Continued Obsessive Thoughts about the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Could My Wife Feel so Connected with the Affair Partner and Not Think the Sex Was Better with Them?
Video icon Q&A How Is This Not about Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Move Forward When the Wayward Spouse Continues to Contact the Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Restore the Marriage If the Wayward Spouse Wants Divorce?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Open up about Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Handle the Betrayal by My Mate’s College Aged Daughter?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need?
Video icon Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To?
Text icon Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work.