For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Does Time Heal All Wounds? 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Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 1306 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do You Heal When the Wayward Spouse Cannot Recall the Details That You Need? 8/23/2019 Q&A Should I Tell My Husband That I Know More Details about His Affair Than I've Led on To? 8/23/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 Q&A What Recommendations Do You Have for Overcoming the Sexual Part of the Affair? 8/20/2019 Q&A How Can I Persuade My Husband That the Affair Partner Is More Than Just a Friend? 8/20/2019 Q&A Are My Doubts and Feelings Normal? 8/20/2019 Q&A I Feel Stuck in the Shame of What I've Done. How Can You Help? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Accept My Husband's Comfort? 8/14/2019 Q&A Is It Healthy for the Betrayed to Know Intimate Details about the Affair Partner? 8/14/2019 Q&A How Do I Deal with a Charismatic, Controlling, Narcissistic Man? 8/14/2019 Q&A Why Can't We Talk about the Affair Partner with out the Wayward Spouse Shutting Down? 8/14/2019 Q&A Should the Wayward Wife Be Rewarded by Taking My Choice Away from Me Many Years Ago? 8/14/2019 Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Confronting His Affair Partner? 8/06/2019 Q&A Is His Guilt Truly about the Affair or about Being Caught? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Convince Myself That My Mate Really Desires Me? 8/06/2019 Q&A How Do I Quit Thinking about My Husband's Affair? 8/06/2019 Q&A Why Can't I Believe That My Mate Is Attracted to Me? 8/02/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Blaming Myself for My Husband’s Acting Out? 8/02/2019 Q&A Has Something Gone Wrong in My Husband's Recovery? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Get My Wayward Spouse to Open up to Me? 7/24/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome My Fears of Contracting an STD from My Wayward Spouse? 7/10/2019 Q&A Is There Hope When the Wayward Refuses to Break Contact? 7/10/2019 Q&A How Can I Encourage the Wayward Spouse to Pursue Healing? 6/26/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Q&A Am I Being Overly Sensitive about My Mate's Views towards the Affair Partner? 6/19/2019 Q&A Is It Normal to Feel That Ending the Marriage May Be a Better Option? 6/19/2019 Q&A Why Do I Keep Having Nightmares about the Affair Partners? 6/11/2019 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Can I Overcome the Fear That This Will Happen Again? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle the Injustice of It All? 6/05/2019 Q&A How Do I Handle My Mate's Grief for the Affair Partner? 6/05/2019 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand What Happened? 5/21/2019 Q&A If I Don't Want to Save the Marriage, Does That Mean I Don't Have Remorse? 5/21/2019 Q&A How Do I Overcome the Thoughts of Comparison? 5/15/2019 Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner? 5/08/2019 Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person? 4/30/2019 Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes? 4/30/2019 Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me? 4/30/2019 Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions? 4/30/2019 Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This? 4/17/2019 Q&A How Do You Know When You're Done? 4/10/2019 Q&A When Do You Give up on the Marriage? 4/10/2019 Q&A Is It Safe to Stay with Someone Who Hasn't Fully Disclosed the Affair? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Am I Struggling with Compassion and Understanding? 4/10/2019 Q&A Am I Deceiving Myself? 4/10/2019 Q&A Why Is the Wayward Spouse Continuing to Justify Their Actions? 4/10/2019 Pages« first‹ previous…121314151617181920…next ›last »