Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With? 8/06/2024
Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed? 8/06/2024
Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024
Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse? 7/31/2024
Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024
Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024
Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024
Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024
Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024
Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024
Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024
Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024
Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024
Q&A Can You Please Address the Problem of Grieving Memories Like Childbirth Under the Shadow of an Affair? 6/19/2024
Q&A How Do I Stop the Comparisons, Build Confidence, and Get Better at Sex Without Feeling Like I’m Trying to Be Like the Affair Partner? 6/19/2024
Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 6/19/2024
Q&A What Is the Best Way to Build Trust Around My Husband’s Actions and My Triggers? 6/13/2024
Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? 6/13/2024
Q&A Will I Ever Accept His Reasons for the Affairs? 6/13/2024
Q&A Does My Mate Still Have Feelings for His Affair Partner? 5/14/2024
Q&A How Do I Know When My Husband is Safe Again? 5/07/2024
Q&A How Do I Address Her Readiness to Engage With Someone So Despicable Versus Her Resistance to Reconnect Intimately With Me? 5/07/2024
Q&A How Do I Cope With the Resurgence of Past Traumas Triggered by Such Betrayal? 4/25/2024
Q&A Every Time I Start to Feel Better, My Unfaithful Spouse Stops Putting in as Much Effort. How Can I Feel Safe When This Happens? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do You Stop Thinking About and Forgive The Affair Partner? 4/25/2024
Q&A How Do We Know if Our Cheating Spouse Is a Sex Addict, Has a Personality Disorder, or if It Is Something Else? 4/25/2024
Q&A Where Can I Find Help for My Mate’s Cognitive Issues Surrounding the Lessons and My Grief? 4/25/2024
Q&A Should My Husband Keep His Mother in His Life Given That She Actively Facilitated and Supported His Actions? 4/25/2024
Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 4/24/2024
Q&A How Can I Be More Help to My Wayward Spouse Like He Has Been for Me? 4/03/2024
Q&A How Do I Deal with My Unfaithful Spouse’s Inability to Self-Reflect? 3/19/2024
Q&A How Can Someone Love You Even During the Betrayal? 3/19/2024
Q&A How Do I Get the Affair Partners Out of My Head? 3/19/2024
Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure? 2/28/2024
Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy and Actually Care about Me Again? 2/28/2024
Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore? 1/30/2024
Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024
Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024
Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024
Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable? 1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024
Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions? 1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me? 1/09/2024
Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024
Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023
Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023
Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023
Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023
Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023
Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023
