Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Recovery Timeline Rebuilding Trust After An Affair We Started Well, but... How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness 1021 Resources Type Title Posted Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 4/14/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 4/07/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated? 3/22/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/09/2021 Surviving Infidelity: 6 Things I Wish I'd Known 3/03/2021 Q&A What More Can I Do to Become Safe for Her and Rebuild Our Relationship? 2/11/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong to Demand Him to Quit His Job for My Own Healing? 2/11/2021 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 2/03/2021 Q&A How Can I Remain Supportive and Loving While Also Protecting Myself? 1/28/2021 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 1/27/2021 Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting to Know My Husband's Yellow-Light Behaviors? 1/25/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Husband to Understand the Importance of Boundaries? 1/20/2021 Q&A Is It Appropriate to Abstain from Sex until Safety and Emotional Intimacy Have Been Established? 1/20/2021 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Stop Seeing Her Affair Partner? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Can I Help My Wife Feel Safe Again? 1/14/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with Constant Relapse? 1/14/2021 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 1/13/2021 Q&A Should I Even Consider Staying or Working on the Marriage? 1/07/2021 Q&A Should He Leave His Job? 11/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Discern If or When It's Safe to Trust Him Again? 11/12/2020 Q&A What Should I Do as the Wayward Spouse When My Spouse Has a Breakdown? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Do We Safely Co-Parent with the Affair Partner When a Child Is Born as a Result of the Affair? 11/12/2020 Q&A How Does One Determine What Not to Share with Their Spouse While Remaining Open and Honest? 10/22/2020 Q&A Am I Wrong to Ask Her to Stop Social Media Use? 10/22/2020 Q&A What Does Moving Forward a Year Later Look Like? 10/22/2020 Q&A Should My Husband Find Another Job to Protect Himself from Relapse? 9/24/2020 Q&A What Factors Are Important When Deciding If the Wayward Spouse Needs to Leave a Job to Distance from the Affair Partner? 9/03/2020 Q&A My Wife Is Considering a Revenge Affair. What Should I Do? 9/03/2020 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Communicate to My Spouse That Their Behavior Is Not Acceptable? 9/02/2020 Q&A Am I Overreacting or Is My Husband Not Taking Responsibility? 8/27/2020 Q&A My Husband Became a Bitter Person, What Should I Do? 8/27/2020 Q&A Is My Husband's Behavior Abusive? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Am I Supposed to Address This Barrier More Than I Already Have? 8/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Wayward Wife's Friendships? 8/13/2020 Q&A What Would You Advise Regarding My Living Situation? 8/13/2020 Q&A How Should We React to Insensitivity? 8/06/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe Again? 7/30/2020 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself When My Vulnerability Was Abused? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Do I Help My Betrayed Spouse Get past the Anger? 7/28/2020 Q&A How Can I Feel Safe When There Is No Empathy? 7/16/2020 Q&A Should We Separate If My Mate Is Still Unsafe? 7/16/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Rebuild Trust with Someone Who Is Constantly Keeping Secrets and Lying? 7/09/2020 Q&A Am I Letting Myself Be Abused Again? 7/09/2020 Q&A Is it Safe to Stay? 7/09/2020 Q&A What Can I Tell Him to Do for Me If I Can’t Trust Anything He Says or Does? 7/09/2020 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »
