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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Happens 1 Year After D-Day?	7/07/2015
	Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now?	7/07/2015
	Q&A How Can we Get Our Adult Children to Support Us?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Why Should I Own my Mistakes?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Can You Help me Find Reasons to Stay?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage?	6/26/2015
	Q&A How Can I Encourage my Spouse to Get Help?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Do Antidepressants Affect Recovery?	6/26/2015
	Q&A How do I Respond to Ambivalence?	6/26/2015
	Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure?	6/26/2015
	Q&A How can I Regain Self-Esteem?	6/23/2015
	Q&A Is There a Reason to go to EMS Weekend After Completing EMS Online?	6/23/2015
	Q&A What are the Issues Related to Being a F.O.B.A.D.?	6/23/2015
	Q&A How Can I Suggest Help for my Spouse Without Seeming Critical?	6/23/2015
	Q&A How Can we Progress to a Better Marriage?	6/23/2015
	Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery?	6/23/2015
	Q&A Is it Infidelity if we were Separated?	6/23/2015
	Q&A Did I Bury the Pain of Betrayal?	6/23/2015
	Q&A Should I Start Over While I Still Can?	6/16/2015
	Q&A Is This Really a New Beginning?	6/16/2015
	Q&A Is no Sexual Desire Common?	6/09/2015
	Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe?	6/09/2015
	Q&A How can I Manage my Anger in a Healthy Way?	6/09/2015
	Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.?	6/09/2015
	Q&A How Long can a Christian Continue to Sin?	6/02/2015
	Q&A How do I Deal with my Spouse's Ambivalence?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Is There Hope for us to Move Forward After this Degree of Infidelity?	6/02/2015
	Q&A How Does Trickle Truth Affect my Recovery Timeline?	6/02/2015
	Q&A How can I be Certain my Spouse has Disclosed Everything?	6/02/2015
	Q&A How do I Manage my Anger and Find Comfort From my Spouse?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Should I Separate my Finances?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Is it Normal to Have Turmoil so Soon After EMS Weekend?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Can Someone go from Years of Unfaithfulness to Faithful at the Flip of a Switch?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Why is my Husband Resisting Change?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Is it Normal to Want Sex After an Emotional Conversation?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Any Final Advice Before I Throw in the Towel?	6/02/2015
	Q&A How do we Handle a Persistent Affair Partner?	6/02/2015
	Q&A How do You Know When You Have Worked Through the Pain?	6/02/2015
	Q&A Is it Normal to still be Hurting?	5/29/2015
	Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?”	5/29/2015
	Q&A What kind of age-appropriate conversations should I be having with my kids about the truth of what their dad has done?	5/29/2015
	Q&A How do we find the Truth between Two Different Perspectives of the Affair?”	5/29/2015
	Q&A When Can the Betrayed Spouse Move on?	5/19/2015
	Q&A Why Start Over With Someone Who Deceived You and Cheated on You?	5/19/2015
	Q&A Should I Separate From my Unfaithful Spouse?	5/19/2015
	Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Get Over the Treatment by the Unfaithful While in an Affair?	5/19/2015
	Q&A When is Sex Okay After an Affair?	5/19/2015
	Q&A How Can I Set Boundaries While my Spouse is Having an Affair?	5/12/2015
	Q&A Which Comes First, Forgiveness or Trust?	5/12/2015