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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner?	10/22/2025
	Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain?	10/22/2025
	Q&A Can You Provide Some Words of Encouragement?	10/22/2025
	Q&A How Do We Handle Intense Intrusive Thoughts When Working High-Demand Jobs?	10/22/2025
	Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding	10/22/2025
	Overcoming Anxiety Caused by an Affair	10/08/2025
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Grief and Sadness?	10/02/2025
	Q&A How Can I Move Towards Vulnerability with Someone Capable of This?	10/02/2025
	Q&A What Can I Do to Help Myself, and Us, At the One Year Mark?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Is It Normal for the Betrayed Partner to Feel Rage?	10/02/2025
	Q&A What Exactly Do I Grieve and Do I Have to Grieve Before I Can Forgive?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Why Would Someone Put Such a Cherished Relationship at Risk with an Affair?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Have Men Been Able to Forgive and Have a Healthy Relationship After Extreme Infidelity?	10/02/2025
	Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused?	10/02/2025
	Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better?	10/02/2025
	Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment	10/01/2025
	How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity?	9/24/2025
	Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation	9/17/2025
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here?	9/10/2025
	Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship?	9/10/2025
	Why Couples Fail After an Affair \| Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened	9/03/2025
	Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves?	8/28/2025
	Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner?	8/28/2025
	Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened?	8/28/2025
	Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex?	8/28/2025
	Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery?	8/27/2025
	Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner?	8/21/2025
	Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal	8/20/2025
	Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage	8/13/2025
	Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity?	8/06/2025
	Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’?	8/06/2025
	Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner?	8/06/2025
	Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband?	8/06/2025
	Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive?	8/06/2025
	Rewriting the Story You Tell	7/30/2025
	Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions?	7/23/2025
	Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy?	7/23/2025
	When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair?	7/23/2025
	Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me?	7/21/2025
	Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?	7/21/2025
	Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?	7/09/2025
	Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion	7/09/2025
	Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them?	7/02/2025
	Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?	7/02/2025
	Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?	7/02/2025