All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Power of Small Groups Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4988 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Could I Have Broken the Cycle Before My Spouse Strayed? 6/25/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Q&A What Am I Trying to Save Here? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Build Trust with My Wayward Spouse? 6/19/2020 Q&A My Wife Says She Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me. How Do I Respond to This? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible for the Wayward Spouse to Recover from the Affair If They Don't Really Grieve the Loss of the Relationship? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Explain the Pain I’m Going Through, from the Betrayal Trauma My Husband Caused, to My Children? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Can These Two Programs Be Helpful in Such a Mess of a Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A If My Spouse Is Going through the Hope for Healing Course, Should I Expect to See His Emotions Roller Coaster like Mine? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do You Have Any Suggestions on Forgiving Someone You Can't Work through Things With? 6/19/2020 Q&A Do I Quit Expressing My Hurt, Asking Questions, and Pray for Peace in Our Remaining Years? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Fall in Love with My Husband Again? 6/19/2020 Q&A Are We Doing Enough to Help Our Situation? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is This Too Much to Overcome? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle My Concern during Our Intensive Weekend? 6/19/2020 Q&A Does My Husband Really Have Only a Sex Addiction? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is Going No Contact with the Affair Partner Suggested or Discussed during Hope for Healing? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Prevent Flashbacks of Photos I Have Seen? 6/19/2020 Q&A Is It Possible to Forgive a Person but Not Forgive Their Actions? 6/19/2020 Q&A How Do I Feel Connected to My Sons Again so I Don't Take This out on Them? 6/19/2020 Q&A Did My Husband Prefer His Affair Partner over Me? 6/18/2020 Q&A Can You Explain Compartmentalization in General and in This Type of Situation Specifically? 6/18/2020 Q&A How Do I Handle Seeing My Affair Partner in Public? 6/18/2020 Q&A Is Overcoming an Affair Similar to Overcoming Alcohol Addiction? 6/18/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Q&A How Do We Handle Flooding? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Help Someone That Won't Come Clean? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do I Move Forward with This Feeling That I'm Not Safe? 6/10/2020 Q&A Can You Define What Respect Is from the Male Point of View and Why Males Want Respect from Our Spouses? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Do We Move Forward If My Mate Is Hard-Hearted and Has Yet to Repent? 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Apply What I Learned from a past Traumatic Experience to Deal with the Pain of Reminders in My Marriage Relationship Now? 6/10/2020 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020 Q&A How Can I Be Empathetic without Allowing My Shame to Cause More Damage? 6/09/2020 Q&A Is This Healthy or Are My Concerns Valid? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Do Same Sex Encounters Mean? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can the Wayward Spouse Resolve the Guilt They Have about the Consequences They Caused for the Affair Partner? 6/09/2020 Q&A What Does Transparency in Marriage Look Like? 6/09/2020 Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand It’s Not about Him and His Pain? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Deal with Hurtful Comments and Lies after a Divorce? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Can I Cherish the Positive Family Moments That Happened during the Affair? 6/03/2020 Q&A Why Has My Husband Re-written Our Marital History? 6/03/2020 Q&A At What Point Is Repair Work, Healing, and Reconciliation Attempts Futile? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Suggestions Do You Have for Recovery during Separation? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do We Build Trust When I Don't Quite Feel Safe Yet? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is This a Safe Way of Dealing with This Problem? 6/03/2020 Q&A What Kind of Affair Was It? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do I Accept That His Actions Were Willful and Done without Any Regard of My Feelings? 6/03/2020 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Ex-husband's Motive? 6/03/2020 Q&A Is It Possible or Even Wise to Forgive My Spouse? 6/03/2020 Q&A How Do Multiple Affairs Affect the Recovery Timeline? 6/03/2020 Pages« first‹ previous…192021222324252627…next ›last »