All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Power of Small Groups Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 4996 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on July 22 7/15/2013 The Trap 7/10/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 15 7/08/2013 What factors determine how long it takes to recover? Does the anxiety ever go away? 7/05/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 8 7/05/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 1 6/24/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 24 6/17/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 17 6/10/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 10 6/03/2013 My affair was 20 years ago, do you have any suggestions on how I can remember the details? 5/20/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 3 5/20/2013 As the unfaithful spouse, how can I improve my communication with my mate so I don't minimize or make excuses? 5/20/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 20 5/13/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 13 5/06/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 6 4/29/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 29 4/22/2013 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 4/17/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 22 4/15/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 15 3/25/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 1 3/25/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 25 3/19/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 18 3/12/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 11 3/05/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 4 2/25/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 25 2/18/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 18 2/11/2013 Is it possible for my mate to have an affair with someone if they don't know what he's doing? 2/11/2013 How do I reconcile who I thought my husband was for 15 years with the person who had the affair, to not see him as a horrible person? 2/11/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 11 2/05/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 4 1/28/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on January 28 1/22/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on January 21 1/08/2013 My wife is resentful toward me eventhough she's the one who had an affair, she feels she married the wrong person, what can I do? 1/08/2013 Rick's Questions - January 21, 2013 1/08/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 Surviving the Holidays: 5 tips 12/18/2012 How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012 Our families are unsupportive of our recovery process, how should we respond? 12/17/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on January 7 12/17/2012 Is Change Really Possible, Part Two 12/13/2012 I'm changed, but my husband can't forgive me, what should I do? 12/11/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on December 17 12/11/2012 Advice for Holly Petraeus 11/29/2012 How do you respond if the unfaithful spouse refuses to be sexual due to the fact the hurt spouse isn't happy? Should they wait until the unfaithful spouse comes around? 11/28/2012 How do you respond to a pastor who doesn't want the hurt spouse to speak with anyone about what happened for fear of disrespecting the unfaithful spouse? 11/28/2012 I'm having trouble letting go and trusting, are there objective milestones I should look to in our recovery before trusting again? 11/28/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on December 3 11/28/2012 How do I talk to my teenage son about masturbation? 11/28/2012 Infidelity's Trifecta - Why Even the Strongest Can Fall 11/21/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…868788899091929394…next ›last »
