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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
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	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Boundaries Can We Set?	11/01/2018
	Q&A What Is the Best Way to Deal with Ambivalence?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Can We Ever Have Trust Again after All This?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Children Cope?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Can We Restore Our Sexual Intimacy?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Erase the Intrusive Thoughts?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Is This a Normal Reaction of Shame and Guilt?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Live with a Spouse That Is Grieving the Affair Partner?	11/01/2018
	Q&A What Might Be Holding My Spouse Back?	11/01/2018
	Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Safety in My Situation?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Paint a New Picture of Our Marriage?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Move past Their Resentments?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Is This a Red Flag?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Is It Time to File for an Annulment?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should I Insist That My Husband Disclose the Affair Partner's Identity?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Can We Create Safety in This Situation?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Can Two Simultaneous Traumatic Events Complicate Infidelity Recovery?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Handle Secrets within My Partner's Family?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do I Begin to Look at Myself in Recovery?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Are There Cases Where You Cannot Forgive and Forget?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should We Separate Due to the Lack of Safety?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Could the Affair Be a Result of Addiction?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should We Share Our Story with Our Children?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Will Things Ever Get Better for Us?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Do We Heal When We Have Both Been Unfaithful?	11/01/2018
	Q&A How Does Depression Affect Infidelity and Recovery?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Was My Mate Committed to Me?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Should I Disclose More Information for the Sake of the Children?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Is It Necessary to Wait until I No Longer Have Feelings for the AP to Reconnect with My Wife?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Could We Fail If We Don't Reach Ground Zero?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate Give Me Full Disclosure?	11/01/2018
	Q&A Can I Retrain My Brain to Not Go into Fight or Flight from the Triggers?	11/01/2018
	Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful	10/31/2018
	Q&A Will the Deep Pain Ever Cease?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Keep Talking about the Affair or Move On?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is It Useful to Think about What Could've Happened?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Do We Move past All the Secrets?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Am I Co-Dependent?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries with Friends That Aided the Affair?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Why Has My Mate Broken My Trust Again?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Should We Continue with EMSO If My Mate Won't Break Contact With the Affair Partner?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is ‘Sleep Masturbation’ a Thing?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is Understanding the 'Why' Important for Healing?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can I Fix What I've Done?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome the Physical Aspect of the Affair?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Is Charm Another Form of Pimping Tenderness?	10/23/2018
	Q&A How Can We Safely Parent a Child from the Affair?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Might Be Holding My Partner Back?	10/23/2018
	Q&A What Are the Benefits of an Infidelity Specific Therapist?	10/23/2018
	Q&A Why Am I Still Struggling with Affection and Intimacy?	10/23/2018