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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2	8/29/2018
	Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1	8/23/2018
	Q&A What Are Good Guidelines for Workplace Friendships with Members of the Opposite Sex?	8/22/2018
	Q&A How Do I Deal with Working with My Spouse's Affair Partner?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Why Won't My Mate See the Affair for What It Was?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Where Is the Humility and Empathy?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Do You Know If There Is a Connection between OCD and Sexual Addiction?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Are Marriages More Likely to Dissolve During the First 6 Weeks of Discovery?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Keeps My Betrayed Spouse from Acknowledging Her Lack of Safety in Our Relationship?	8/22/2018
	Q&A How Can I Prove to My Mate I'm Telling the Truth?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Mate Stonewalls for Days?	8/22/2018
	Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Accept How Long My Affair Lasted?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Was My Husband in Love with His Affair Partner?	8/22/2018
	Q&A Is It Possible That My Wayward Spouse to Become More Ambivalent?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Does It Look like for the Wayward Spouse to Help the Injured Spouse through Recovery?	8/22/2018
	Q&A What Can I Do with My Unmet Needs?	8/15/2018
	Q&A How Do We Protect Our Children During Recovery?	8/15/2018
	Q&A What Is the Next Step for Us?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever 'Get It'?	8/15/2018
	Q&A What Are Your Thoughts on Communicating with the Affair Partners Spouse?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Am I Wrong in My Understanding That This Is Financial Infidelity?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Am I Making Too Much of the Words My Mate Uses?	8/15/2018
	Q&A How Can I Encourage My Spouse to Pursue Healing?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Will My Spouse Ever Grow Up?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Shame to My Mate?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Do You Think Privacy Has a Place in a Marriage?	8/15/2018
	Q&A Can Our Marriage Be Restored?	8/15/2018
	Ending an Affair: Close the Door	8/15/2018
	Q&A How Can I Let Go of the Hurt from What My Spouse Shared with the Affair Partner?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Do We Rebuild from the Rubble at This Point?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Can Anyone Justify Abandoning the Kids?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Can You Help Me Explain My Trauma to My Husband?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Can You Further Explain Compartmentalization?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Move On?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Can We Heal Our Marriage and Create Safety with Family Members?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Is It Worth Doing the EMS Weekend after You've Already Done the Online Version?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Do I Need to Do All These Steps?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Do I Let Her Go?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Do I Overcome This Vicious Cycle?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Is There Hope for Us?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Are Things beyond Repair?	8/08/2018
	Q&A What Will Happen to My Wayward Spouse If She Never Pursues Healing?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Can I Communicate That It Was Shame That Caused Me to Hide?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Why Can’t I Let Go of the Past?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Will There Be Mentor Stories with Dynamics Similar to Ours?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Is a Marriage Devoid of Sexual Intimacy Doomed?	8/08/2018
	Q&A How Are You Supposed to 'Enjoy' Your Mate When There Is so Much Anger and Pain?	8/08/2018
	Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Still Curious about the Affair Partner?	8/08/2018
	Q&A What Are Some Acceptable 'High Risk' Green Light Behaviors You Can Recommend for Couples?	8/08/2018
	Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision	8/08/2018