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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Stop Re-Traumatizing Myself?	7/26/2017
	Q&A When Will My Husband Visualize Himself with Me Instead of Seeing Me with the AP	7/26/2017
	Q&A What If I Didn't Affair Down?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Can I Help My Partner with Their Flooding?	7/26/2017
	Q&A How Do We Cope with Differing Marriage Histories?	7/19/2017
	Q&A Will EMS Online Help Him Overcome His Ambivalence?	7/19/2017
	Q&A How Do We Move beyond 'Pretend Normal'?	7/19/2017
	Q&A Should There Be Closure with the Affair Partner?	7/19/2017
	Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'?	7/19/2017
	Q&A With Multiple Discoveries over 2 Years, How Do I Know She's Told Me Everything?	7/19/2017
	Q&A What Sort of Outcomes Do You See in Situations with Anger Like Ours?	7/19/2017
	Q&A Is His Affair Too Big for Us to Overcome?	7/19/2017
	Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story	7/19/2017
	Kenneth and Amanda's Mentor Video	7/18/2017
	Q&A Are My Requests Unreasonable?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Maintain My Stand to Not Tolerate His Behavior While Not Ruining a Co-Parenting Relationship?	7/12/2017
	Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?	7/12/2017
	Q&A If He Truly Has Disclosed Everything but I Still Feel Like He Hasn't, How Can We Move Forward?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle All of Life's Issues without Losing Focus of the Infidelity?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Should Intimacy Look for a Couple after Infidelity?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Heal When I Feel He’s Lying and Still Entangled with a Coworker?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Can I Ever Feel Safe with This History of Deceit?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Proceed without Acknowledgement That It Was an Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Tell Others about Our Recovery and How Do I Handle Being Triggered While Seeing Clients?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Running into the Affair Partner Now That the Affair Is Over?	7/12/2017
	Q&A What's Your Take on an Unfaithful Wife Who Still Blames the Marriage for the Affair 1 Year from Discovery?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Help My Spouse When He Is Drowning in Shame?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Should I Not Bring up the Affair Again?	7/12/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do with a Spouse That Blames Me for the Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Handle Comparison with the Affair Partner and Changing My Mindset of My Self-Worth?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Are We Doomed to a Sexless Marriage after the Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Am I Being Emotionally Abused since His Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Is Healing from a Long-Term Affair Different Than Healing from a Short-Term Affair or One Night Stand?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Can You Give Specific Suggestions to Handle the Locations of the Acting out with the Affair Partner?	7/12/2017
	Q&A What Safe Questions Can I Ask to Regain Our Openness but without Causing Me Pain?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Fears of What He Will Do If I Leave Him?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get past My Negative Self Image?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Do We Revert Back to Our Old State Once the Threat Disappears?	7/12/2017
	Q&A He Wants to Do the Bootcamp but I Don't. What Do We Do?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to See Me in a More Positive Light?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Is It Okay to Let the Affair Partner Know That I Forgive Her?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Is It Therapeutic for People to Know about My Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Where Do I Go from Here?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Is Asking Questions Abusive?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Support Him When He Struggles to Be Safe for Us?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Can We Overcome past Promises of Leaving after Betrayal?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Why Am I Struggling with the Length of the Affair?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do We Handle Weddings?	7/12/2017
	Q&A Will Marriage Therapy Work If the Unfaithful Spouse Doesn't Have to Discuss What Happened?	7/12/2017
	Q&A How Do I Know If a Counselor Is a Good Fit?	7/12/2017