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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is it my Fear or my Gut Causing me to Not Believe Him?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How can the Betrayed Cope with the Continual Lying?	1/11/2017
	Q&A How Can I Keep Getting Back Up?	1/11/2017
	Q&A Am I Wrong to Use History to Confront Current Behaviors?	1/11/2017
	Q&A After his Affair, he Changed and now does Everything Right. Why do I Feel so Empty?	1/11/2017
	Q&A Why Did I Have an Affair? Was I My True Self During My Affair?	1/11/2017
	Q&A If I Don't Believe I Have the Truth about the Affair, is there any Hope?	1/11/2017
	Q&A Can my Christian Witness be Valid Without Conveying Forgiveness?	12/20/2016
	Q&A When is the Best Time to Bring up Hurt Feelings?	12/20/2016
	Q&A Is Forgiveness my Issue?	12/20/2016
	Q&A How Can I Prepare for the Holidays and Anniversary After My Wife has Left the Marriage?	12/20/2016
	Q&A Why is his Anger Growing and How Can I Help?	12/20/2016
	Q&A How do I Get my Spouse to Understand my Need for Full Disclosure? The Affair is Ongoing.	12/20/2016
	Q&A Why is she Acting this Way? Should we Work on the Marital Issues Instead of the Infidelity?	12/20/2016
	Q&A Why would he Cause me and His Affair Partner to be so Close Together?	12/20/2016
	Q&A When do I Say I'm Moving On?	12/20/2016
	Q&A What Type of Affair is This?	12/20/2016
	Q&A I want Recovery to Work, but Things Aren't Changing. Will it Get Better?	12/16/2016
	Q&A There was Infidelity Prior to Marriage. How do we Best Prepare for Marriage?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Are these Requests Appropriate for me to Ask for?	12/16/2016
	Q&A What are the Options Available Without Full Disclosure?	12/16/2016
	Q&A How do I Handle my Wife's Lack of Empathy?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Will it Take 10 Years to Heal?	12/16/2016
	Q&A How can my Wife and I Handle my Lingering Feelings for my Affair Partner?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Did we Miss the Point of the 20 Cost Exercise?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Based on our Situation, Would it be Best to Separate?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Should we Divorce or is there Still a Chance of a Happy Ending After this Nightmare?	12/16/2016
	Q&A Should I be Farther Along in Recovery?	12/16/2016
	Michael & Alicia's Mentor Video	12/15/2016
	Battling Intrusive Thoughts and Physical Intimacy After Infidelity	12/13/2016
	Q&A How can we Heal if we don't Talk?	12/07/2016
	Q&A Is this as Good as it Gets in Our Recovery?	12/07/2016
	Q&A He Contacted the Affair Partner and Lied About it. What do I do?	12/07/2016
	Q&A How Can We Heal from Her Affair Under these Circumstances?	12/07/2016
	Q&A Can You Address My Fears of What EMS Weekend Will Force me to do?	12/07/2016
	Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation?	12/01/2016
	Q&A Can we Fully Recover from Her Affair Without Moving Our Family?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Will there be a New Course Offered to Help Us Find that Next Level in Marriage?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How do we Overcome these Barriers to Intimacy?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How can I Get Over What Bill W. Founder of AA, did to His Wife?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Can you Give me a Vision for a Healed Marriage I Can Work Towards?	11/30/2016
	Q&A In this Scenario, Should we Inform Our Adult Children of His Affairs?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How do you Enforce Boundaries Short of Separation or Divorce?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What are the Signs to Watch for to Know a Liar has Stopped Lying?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Should 12 Step Work be a Requirement for a Sex Addict Wanting to Salvage the Marriage?	11/30/2016
	Q&A What Are Reasonable Expectations for Me Being Married to a Sex Addict?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Is it Time for Me to Give Up if She Doesn't Commit to Recovery?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Is it OK for Me to Say No Even Though it May Make Things Worse?	11/30/2016
	Q&A Have you Seen a Marriage Recover from this Kind of Affair?	11/30/2016
	Q&A How Can I Not Feel Lonely While My Spouse Grieves the Loss of His Affair Partner?	11/30/2016