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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Is There Any Hope for Healthy Attachment, Rather Than Resentment & Apathy?	8/12/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A If There Is a Future for Our Marriage, Would You See the Journey to Be Any Different than Normal?	5/19/2023
	Q&A How Do I Create a Coherent Story If the Details from My Mate Are Always Changing?	5/19/2023
	Q&A How Do I Let Go of What Happened and Fully Re-Engage with My Mate?	5/19/2023
	What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity?	5/10/2023
	When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity	5/03/2023
	Q&A How Do I Handle a New Betrayal Immediately after EMS Weekend?	5/02/2023
	Q&A I’m Losing Compassion for My Mate. What Can I Do?	5/02/2023
	Q&A Is It My Fault That They Did What They Did?	5/02/2023
	Q&A How Do I Get past the Shame and Hurt?	5/02/2023
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Spouse Is Making Me Choose between Her and My Faith?	5/02/2023
	Q&A How Does One Find a Reputable and Affordable Polygraph Test Provider?	5/02/2023
	Q&A Is My Mate’s Inability to Experience Emotions Due to Deep Trauma or Something More Problematic?	5/02/2023
	Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict	4/26/2023
	Q&A How Do You Recommend I Write My Closure Letter to the Affair Partner?	4/20/2023
	Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him?	4/12/2023
	Q&A What If the Only Way I Can Heal Is without Horizontal Forgiveness?	4/12/2023
	Q&A How Do We Handle Workplace Triggers in Recovery?	4/12/2023
	Q&A Do You Think My Spouse Is Being Honest about Why They Stayed in the Affair for So Long?	4/12/2023
	Q&A What Is the Best Way for Us to Utilize EMS Online since We Have Both Been Unfaithful?	4/12/2023
	Q&A What Type of Affair Is This?	4/12/2023
	Q&A How Do I Cope with My Own Issues of Needing to Feel Understood by My Husband as the Wayward Spouse?	4/12/2023
	Q&A How Can Someone Who Has Become Such an Accomplished Liar Prove to the Betrayed Spouse That They Can Be Trusted?	4/12/2023
	Q&A How Do You Discern If a Person Is Truly Remorseful and Changing When They Relapse into Blaming the Betrayed?	4/12/2023
	Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2)	4/12/2023
	Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1)	4/05/2023
	Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed	3/29/2023
	Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery	3/22/2023
	Q&A Is It Possible for the Individual to Find Healing and Purpose Even If the Marriage Doesn’t Survive?	3/17/2023
	Q&A How Do We Handle a Paternity Test for a Child Born Years Ago?	3/17/2023
	Q&A Does My Husband’s Sexual Performance Indicate a Serious Issue?	3/17/2023
	Q&A Is My Lack of Emotion Normal or Am I Experiencing Something Much Worse?	3/17/2023
	Q&A How Do I Handle My Spouse’s Siblings?	3/17/2023
	Q&A Do We Have a Chance at Recovery If He Is Unable to Understand How Trauma Can Impact Me?	3/17/2023
	Q&A Why Does He Tell Me I Am the Only Girl and Will Be Faithful When He Continues to See Other Women?	3/17/2023
	Q&A Does My Mate Have a Sexual Addiction?	3/17/2023
	Q&A How Do I Approach This Polygraph without Feeling like My Marriage Is on the Line?	3/17/2023
	Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse	3/15/2023
	Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery	3/08/2023
	Q&A How Do Social Engagement and Our Nervous Systems Work Together?	3/02/2023
	Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate That I’m Not Talking to the Affair Partner?	3/02/2023
	Q&A What Action Do You Recommend If My Mates Behavior Doesn’t Change?	3/02/2023
	Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone	3/01/2023
	Q&A Do You Think There Is an Appropriate Methodology of Trying to Recall Some of This Using Hypnosis?	2/17/2023
	Q&A How Do We Handle Pregnancy So Close to Discovery?	2/17/2023
	Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse Acknowledge That Being in an Affair for So Long Has Affected the Way They See Themselves, Me, and Our Relationship Sexually?	2/17/2023
	Q&A How Long Typically Does It Take for a Betrayed Spouse to Forgive Their Unfaithful Spouse If the Unfaithful Spouse Is Doing the Work to Reconcile?	2/17/2023
	Q&A Can You Further Explain How to Determine and Address What Could Have Led to My Husband’s Affair?	2/17/2023
	How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor	2/15/2023
	How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons	2/08/2023
	How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame	2/02/2023