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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Cast Down My Thoughts of Beating Up My Wife’s Affair Partner?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Should I Be Alarmed with This Feeling Of Disgust and Will It Ever Go Away?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Do I Know He's Really Choosing Me?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature?	4/29/2021
	Q&A What Resources, Books, Videos or Programs Would You Suggest For Grown Children Who Just Found Out about Their Father's Infidelity?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Do I Respect My Husband Again or Decide If I Really Want to Stay Knowing We May Never Be Fully Healed?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Why Should I Believe My Husband Is Really Committed to Me When He Would Go Out of His Way for the Affair Partner, but Not for Me?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Do I Go Back to Normal Sexual Behavior with My Spouse When My Spouse Told Me the Affair Partner Was Better Than Me in Bed and Also Had a Bigger Male Anatomy?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Can You Explain the Similarities and Differences between Confessing, Acknowledgement and Accountability?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Does the Addition of Domestic Violence Influence Affair Recovery?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Does Alcohol Really Play That Much of a Part in Infidelity?	4/29/2021
	Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage?	4/29/2021
	Q&A Is This the Healthiest Advice or Do I Need to Seek Different Therapist for Individual Counseling?	4/22/2021
	Q&A Should I Ask My Husband to Take the Sex Addiction Survey Test Again with Me Assisting?	4/22/2021
	Q&A Can You Explain Why the Recovery Rate Is Lower For Infidelity Early in Marriage?	4/22/2021
	Q&A What Leads Me to Objectifying Women?	4/22/2021
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery?	4/22/2021
	Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin?	4/13/2021
	Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant?	4/13/2021
	Q&A What Can I or Should I Do With the Thoughts in My Head?	4/13/2021
	Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do?	4/13/2021
	Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe?	4/13/2021
	Q&A Do You Classify This as a Sexual Addiction or Is This a Different Type of Affair?	4/13/2021
	Q&A What Is the Definition of an Emotional Affair?	4/13/2021
	Q&A What Else Can I Do, Other Than Be Honest and Give Her Space?	4/13/2021
	Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile	3/31/2021
	Q&A Should We Try to Find New Therapist?	3/25/2021
	Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner?	3/25/2021
	Q&A What Do You Do If You Have a Trigger and It Makes You Think of a New Detail?	3/25/2021
	Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way?	3/25/2021
	A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering	3/24/2021
	Q&A What Would You Recommend for Someone Who Feels like Their Main Support Group Is Coming to a Close When the Process Is Just Beginning?	3/22/2021
	Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change?	3/22/2021
	Q&A How do I Let Go of This Painful Reminder?	3/22/2021
	Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair?	3/22/2021
	Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé?	3/22/2021
	Q&A Can a Relationship Born Out of Infidelity Last?	3/22/2021
	Q&A How Do We Safely and Respectfully Navigate Reconciliation, and Re-Integration to the Home, While Separated?	3/22/2021
	Q&A How Can I Trust God and Have Faith in Him?	3/22/2021
	Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back?	3/18/2021
	Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage?	3/18/2021
	Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust?	3/11/2021
	Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage?	3/11/2021
	Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past?	3/11/2021
	Q&A As the Wayward Spouse Will I Ever Fall Back in Love with My Husband?	3/09/2021
	Q&A Was He Hoping to Get Caught in an Effort to Have Me End the Marriage?	3/09/2021
	Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence?	3/09/2021