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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A What Was the Sex and Intimacy Retreat Like?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Can I Get past Our Wedding Anniversary?	3/08/2017
	Q&A When Do You Know It's as Good as It's Going to Get?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Why Would I Choose to Stay with Her?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do We Make It through the Course If It's Been Bad for the First 5 Weeks?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What is Reasonable to Expect in the 18-24 Month Timeline?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is It Possible to Let My Shield Down and Heal This?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is His Lack of Transparency Grounds for Divorce?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Continue to Focus on My Own Therapy at This Point?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Is a Reasonable Shift of Expectations for My Mate in Recovery?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Face Pregnancy as a Trigger?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Regain My Confidence as a Mom When the Principals I Teach Didn't Protect Me?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Do Neglectful Mothers Create Sons Who Become Emotionally Unavailable and Love Avoidant Men?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Will I Know When I've Completely Forgiven Him?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do I Stop Looking at Him as a Betrayer?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Can I Do to Get Him to Move Forward?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Should This Friendship End?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Do We Navigate This and Reconnect Sexually?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Can Someone Hate Their Parent's Infidelity and Then Do It Themselves?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What's the Best Way for Me to Handle My Struggle with Thought Life?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is It Common to Relapse More Than Once?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Consider Visiting Our Children without My Husband?	3/08/2017
	Q&A How Can I Accept This Reality and Let Go?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Do You Advise for Me to Set Safe Boundaries and Expectations?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Is She Finally Choosing Me or Is It Something Else?	3/08/2017
	Q&A When Will My Mind Stop the Constant Back and Forth Emotions?	3/08/2017
	Q&A Could You Both Share More of Your Journey?	3/08/2017
	Q&A What Other Steps Should We Take to Work towards Reaching a Full Recovery?	3/08/2017
	Q&A When Do Unfaithful Women Typically Begin to Show Empathy?	3/08/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong?	2/28/2017
	Q&A What Do I Do Now? He's Still a Liar and Our Marriage Is a Fake.	2/28/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Give Our Marriage a Chance?	2/22/2017
	Q&A Will My Husband Ever Recommit to the Marriage?	2/22/2017
	Q&A Can Pop Psychology Predict Our Compatibility?	2/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Get My Husband to Stop Focusing on My Past So He Will Work on His Addiction?	2/22/2017
	Q&A How Do I Combat My Feelings toward the Unremorseful Affair Partner?	2/22/2017
	Q&A Am I Sabotaging Our Relationship Because I'm Not Getting What I Want?	2/15/2017
	Q&A What Therapy Would You Suggest for Us?	2/15/2017
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward Feeling That I Don't Have the Truth?	2/15/2017
	Q&A Could This Be the End?	2/15/2017
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes?	2/15/2017
	Q&A Do You Think I'll Ever Feel Safe given These Circumstances?	2/15/2017
	Q&A Where do I go from Here? I'm Hesitant to Attend EMS Weekend.	2/08/2017
	Q&A How do I Release and Let Go of the Shame?	2/08/2017
	Q&A What can I do to Deal with His Actions Toward Me?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Can I Speak to the Affair Partner in this Situation?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can we Help Her Heal from Her Past Actions?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Should I Stay for the Kids and Just Deal with His Online Struggles?	2/08/2017
	Q&A Are his Recovery Steps Sufficient or is Something Missing?	2/08/2017
	Q&A How can we Achieve Transparency Without me Policing my Husband?	2/08/2017