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Type	Title	Posted
	Understanding the Phases of Recovery: Is this normal?	10/12/2026
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4630 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Why Will He Still Not Talk About It?	12/01/2015
	Q&A How Can I Help My Mate?	12/01/2015
	Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger?	12/01/2015
	Q&A Thanks for the Help, But What About My Betrayed Spouse?	12/01/2015
	Q&A Was This Authority Rape?	12/01/2015
	Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP?	12/01/2015
	Q&A Why Won't He Talk About It?	11/19/2015
	Q&A Do I Have Full Disclosure?	11/19/2015
	Q&A What Does it Mean to Transform Our Pain?	11/17/2015
	Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust?	11/17/2015
	Q&A Will it Forever Be a Loveless Marriage?	11/17/2015
	Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert	11/17/2015
	Q&A If I Share My Fears With My Spouse, Will That Hold Us Back?	11/10/2015
	Q&A The Affair Was Going On Before Our Wedding, How Do I Answer These EMSO Questions?	11/10/2015
	Q&A Is It Because Of An Addiction Or Compulsion?	11/10/2015
	Q&A How Can I Help My Spouse With Sex Related Triggers?	11/10/2015
	Q&A What Made Him Do This, Narcissism Or Addiction?	11/10/2015
	Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP?	11/10/2015
	Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ?	11/10/2015
	Q&A What Are the Best Ways to Show Love in the First 18 Months of Recovery?	11/04/2015
	Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function?	11/04/2015
	Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I?	11/04/2015
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations?	11/04/2015
	Q&A I Want to Learn More About God, Where Do I Start?	11/04/2015
	Q&A How Do I Deal With My Spouse Saying, "Why Don't You Just Divorce Me?"?	11/04/2015
	Q&A Mentor Couples - What to Do If We Can't Find One?	11/04/2015
	Q&A I Was Unfaithful, but I Didn't Know My Spouse Was Also Unfaithful Until After EMS Weekend... What Do We Do?	11/04/2015
	What’s the Most Effective Role for Me?	10/27/2015
	Should We Continue the Course and Risk Hurting the Other Couples?	10/27/2015
	Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts?	10/27/2015
	Q&A Why Is Infidelity So Traumatic?	10/27/2015
	How Can My Unfaithful Wife Take Initiative In Recovery?	10/27/2015
	How Can the Betrayer Get Past Guilt When Spouse Gives Constant Criticism?	10/27/2015
	Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last?	10/27/2015
	Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date?	10/20/2015
	Q&A How Can Sex Be Special Again?	10/20/2015
	Q&A Why Does Our Fresh Start Seem Stale?	10/20/2015
	Q&A Did My ADHD Create Vulnerability for My Spouse?	10/20/2015
	Q&A Can We Let the Country Music Association Know the Pain They Will Cause?	10/20/2015
	Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery?	10/20/2015
	Q&A When Will I Receive the Love I'm Sending?	10/20/2015
	Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries?	10/20/2015
	Q&A Is it Safe For Me to Stay?	10/20/2015
	Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog	10/12/2015
	Q&A How Can We Heal When Nothing is Being Addressed?	10/06/2015
	Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain?	10/06/2015
	Q&A Why Even Justify This?	10/06/2015
	Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment?	10/06/2015
	Q&A Betrayal Begins With You?	10/06/2015
	Q&A What's The Difference Between Healthy Emotion and Emotional Flooding?	10/01/2015