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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Andy and Laura Mentor Video	5/14/2019
	Q&A Can You Recommend a Timeline?	5/08/2019
	Q&A What Should I Do?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Am I Hurting My Mates Recovery Process?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Do You Have Advice for My Situation?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Properly Grieve the Losses?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Can I Stop Comparing Myself to the Affair Partner?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is My Unfaithful Husband Now Addicted to God?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Know What to Believe?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is It Typical to Still Be in So Much Anguish This Far down the Road?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Are Polygraph's Valid and Should My Husband Take One?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Manage Our Sexual Intimacy?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Could These Be Contributing Factors to My Husband's Acting Out?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Am I Wrong in My Thinking?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Why Can't My Husband Face That This Was an Affair?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible He Is Being Honest?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Am I Becoming Codependent and Is This a Bad Thing?	5/08/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Would You Recommend upon Reconciliation?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do We Handle the Affair Partner's Continued Intrusion in Our Life?	5/08/2019
	Q&A How Do I Overcome My Dependence on My Mates Affirmation?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Choose to Stay Committed to the Affair Partner?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Can Depression Adversely Effect the Recovery Process?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Should We Disclose the AP's Personal Information to Our Mate?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Why Is My Mate Shifting the Blame to Me?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Is It Safe to Believe My Mate?	5/08/2019
	Q&A Have I Made a 'Deal Breaker' Decision?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Is It Okay for the Wayward Spouse to Journal about the Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe with Multiple Online Accounts?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Should We Stay in the Marriage for the Kids?	4/30/2019
	Q&A What Are Healthy Ways for the Wayward to Grieve Losing the Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Ensure That This Doesn't Change Me into a Miserable Person?	4/30/2019
	Q&A If We Married for the Wrong Reason Should the Marriage Be Saved?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Feel Safe from Another Relapse?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Often Do the Betrayed End up Having Revenge Affairs?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Convince My Wife I Love Her and Only Her?	4/30/2019
	Q&A What Happens If I'm Not Seeing Remorse?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can My Wife Become Disentangle from the Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Show Empathy without Getting Defensive?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Do I Get Complete Disclosure on How Deep This Sex Addiction Goes?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Why Isn't My Wayward Spouse Pursuing Me?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Is It Possible That My Spouse Never Blamed Me for Their Actions?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Can You Help Me Understand My Recovery Timeline?	4/30/2019
	Q&A How Can I Recover from an Abusive Affair Partner?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Am I Being to Harsh with My Wayward Husband?	4/30/2019
	Q&A Why Did My Mate Grow Distant Again?	4/17/2019
	Q&A Could the Marriage Have Gotten Better Even While My Mate Is Acting Out?	4/17/2019
	Q&A Is This Relationship worth Keeping?	4/17/2019
	Q&A Is It Time to Walk Away?	4/17/2019
	Q&A What Boundaries Should We Set for Transparency?	4/17/2019
	Q&A How Do I Discern What Is True in All of This?	4/17/2019