All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 4900 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Help My Wife Feel Safe When She Is Triggered? 2/28/2024 Q&A Will an Emotional Affair Become Physical with Enough Opportunity? 2/28/2024 Q&A Can You Describe ‘The Cycle of Grace’ in Secular Terms? 2/28/2024 Q&A What Do I Do with an Unfaithful Spouse Who Will Not Provide Me with Full Disclosure? 2/28/2024 Q&A Is It Possible for Him to Rebuild Real Empathy and Actually Care about Me Again? 2/28/2024 Dealing with Reminders 2/28/2024 Manifestation of Shame Part 1: The Unfaithful 2/21/2024 Understanding the Mind of the Unfaithful: Minimizing the Affair 2/14/2024 Betrayal Trauma: How We Get Stuck in Trauma Bonds 2/07/2024 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 1/31/2024 Q&A Is My Husband’s Erectile Dysfunction Due to His Affair? 1/30/2024 Q&A What Stops an Emotional Affair from Becoming Physical? How Do I Work through This Chasm in Our View of What Happened? 1/30/2024 Q&A Why Should I Go through This Program If I Don’t Believe My Unfaithful Spouse Loves Me Anymore? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Could My Unfaithful Partner Just Forget about the Affair Partner and What They Did Together? 1/30/2024 Q&A What Does Making Restitution Look Like in a Marriage after an Affair? 1/30/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over the Fact He Wanted to Walk Out on Us? 1/30/2024 What Does Doing the Work of Infidelity Recovery Mean for the Unfaithful - Infidelity Recovery 1/24/2024 Grieving Betrayal 1/17/2024 What is Healing? 1/10/2024 Q&A Given That Addiction Is Part of His Personality with the Alcohol Abuse, Is He Also a Sex Addict? Is There Any Chance He Might Get Better with DBT Therapy? 1/09/2024 Q&A Is It Ok for My Husband to Meet With His Affair Partner? 1/09/2024 Q&A Are My Assumptions about the Affair Partner’s Intentions Reasonable? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Tell My Unfaithful Spouse I Need Access to His Devices to Feel Safe? 1/09/2024 Q&A Could My Husband Be a Sex Addict? 1/09/2024 Q&A Can You Give Me Input on How My Mate Justified Their Actions? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Get past Feeling So Much Time Was Stolen from Me? 1/09/2024 Q&A If a Person Is Taking Medications and Has Gone Thru 6 Rounds of Chemo before Taking a Polygraph, Could This Give a False Reading? 1/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Husband’s Anger? 1/09/2024 Q&A Can You Clarify What It Looks Like for Someone to Go into the Pre-contemplative and Contemplative Stage after a Relapse? 1/09/2024 Common Mistakes Made When Recovering from Infidelity 12/27/2023 Surviving the Holidays: 6 Tips 12/20/2023 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 12/12/2023 Who is the Other Woman? 12/06/2023 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 11/28/2023 Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Have a Right to Ask the Betrayed What Source They Are Using to Find Information about the Affair? 11/28/2023 Q&A Can You Help Me Understand Why My Partner Has Never Cried? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Is the Best Way to Keep Boundaries in a Situation Where the Affair Happens in a Tight Knit Community? 11/28/2023 Q&A How Do I Communicate Love, Compassion, and Empathy during the Discovery Process or Questioning? 11/28/2023 Q&A What Traits Should We Look For in an Accountability Partner? 11/28/2023 Q&A Are There Support Groups Specifically for Recovery from Both Infidelity and Alcoholism? 11/28/2023 Community for Healing from Infidelity – Affair Recovery 11/22/2023 Affair Recovery: The Number One Question and How to Answer It 11/15/2023 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 11/07/2023 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/01/2023 Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 10/24/2023 Q&A What Is My Role in My Husband’s Healing Journey If He Has Been a Serial Cheater for Our Whole Dating & Marriage Relationship? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Create Safety for Myself with an Addict That Is Not Seeking Out Help for Himself? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Deal With My Sexual Addiction When Everything I’ve Tried Isn’t Working? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Can I Help My Mate Understand the Devastation I’m Experiencing Because of Them Giving Me An STD? 10/23/2023 Q&A How Do I Commit to This Marriage When I Promised Myself I’d Never Stay with Someone Who Cheated On Me? 10/23/2023 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »