All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 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Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 4984 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Know if It Is Time to Let the Relationship Go? 10/22/2024 Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse? 10/22/2024 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 10/16/2024 Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do? 10/09/2024 Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair? 10/09/2024 Are They Thinking About the Other Person? 10/09/2024 Is My Spouse a Narcissist? 10/02/2024 Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse? 10/01/2024 Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically? 10/01/2024 Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate? 10/01/2024 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate 9/25/2024 Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours? 9/18/2024 Q&A Did My Wife Need to Justify Her Behavior in Cheating on Me? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me? 9/18/2024 Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband? 9/18/2024 Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal? 9/18/2024 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 9/18/2024 Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 9/11/2024 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 9/04/2024 Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC 8/28/2024 How to Find Answers 8/21/2024 Q&A Are We at the End of the Road? 8/20/2024 Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners? 8/20/2024 Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful? 8/14/2024 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 8/14/2024 The Process of Healing from Infidelity 8/07/2024 Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House? 8/06/2024 Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With? 8/06/2024 Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed? 8/06/2024 Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs? 8/06/2024 Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse? 7/31/2024 Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women? 7/31/2024 Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship? 7/31/2024 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/31/2024 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery? 7/26/2024 Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over? 7/26/2024 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 7/24/2024 Why This Hurts So Much... 7/17/2024 Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery? 7/10/2024 Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner? 7/10/2024 Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Quit Using ‘Absolutes'? 7/10/2024 Q&A Should I Risk Provoking My Affair Partner if It Makes My Mate Feel Better? 7/10/2024 Q&A How Can We Reconnect if I Don’t Know What Happened? 7/10/2024 Q&A Am I Asking for Too Much Control or Is the Wayward Spouse Being Unreasonable With a Lack of Boundaries? 7/10/2024 Q&A Do I Need to Allow the Wayward Spouse to Have More Time in the Recovery Process? 7/10/2024 Q&A What Should We Look for in a Therapist to Ensure They Can Provide the Specialized Support Needed for Infidelity Recovery? 7/10/2024 Pages« first‹ previous123456789…next ›last »