Q&A How Do I Get past the Uncontrollable Fear of This Happening Again or That It Is Still Happening? 4/06/2022
Q&A Can You Please Give Me a Detailed Outline of What a Structured Separation Is and How to Implement It? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Do You Heal the Relationship with the Betrayed’s Extended Family? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Do We Continue in This Process When Only One of Us Is Committed? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Do We Move Forward after Several Relapses? 4/06/2022
Q&A How Much Harder Will Our Recovery Be in This Situation? 3/25/2022
Q&A How Can I Put In the Effort Needed on My End for Intimacy without Getting the Same Failed Result? 3/25/2022
Q&A How Can I Trust Him Again? 3/10/2022
Q&A If My Spouse Felt So Much Guilt and Shame the First Time, Why Did They Do It Again? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Should I Handle My Spouse Threatening to Harm Me? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Was He Able to Do a 180 Turn on Discovery? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Should I as a Wayward Spouse Approach My Spouse’s Continual Desire for Reassurance? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Do We Create a Shared View of Our Relationship When We Have No Valid Timelines to Reference? 3/10/2022
Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Do I Emotionally Connect with Someone Who Treats Me This Way? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Long Does It Take for Desire for My Mate to Return after Severing Ties with My Affair Partners? 3/10/2022
Q&A How Long Should I Accept and Validate His Exaggerated Reactions as a Result of My Previously Reckless Behaviors? 2/17/2022
Q&A Do You Agree It’s Necessary to Re-Establish No Contact? 2/17/2022
Q&A Why Don’t I Respect My Husband? 2/17/2022
Q&A How Should I Go About Trying to Get to Ground Zero? 2/17/2022
Q&A How Do I Get past the Affair Partner Continually Sending Me Photos and Descriptive Dialog? 2/17/2022
Q&A What Do I Do When My Partner Is in Denial about His Infidelity? 2/17/2022
Q&A Should a Wayward Spouse Be Allowed to Have Friends of the Opposite Gender? 2/17/2022
Q&A How do I Heal? 2/17/2022
Q&A Is He Just Not Interested in Me or Did He Magically Figure Out How to Treat a Woman? 2/17/2022
Q&A When an Intrusive Thought Occurs, How Do I Know the Difference between Suppressing and Ignoring That Thought versus Not Giving It Any Airtime, Capturing It, and Redirecting My Thinking to Something Else? 2/02/2022
Q&A Am I Being Closed Minded? 2/02/2022
Q&A How Should I Deal With Characteristics That I Do Not Possess, Yet Seem to Have Been Sought after by My Spouse in the Affair Partners? 2/02/2022
Q&A What Do I Do to Protect My, and My Children’s, Heart? 2/02/2022
Q&A How Can I Get To a More Balanced Psyche? 2/02/2022
Q&A Is It Wrong to Feel a Sense of a Sexual Revolution, after His Affair? 2/02/2022
Q&A What Do We Do When We Both Cheated, If My Betrayal Was ‘Worse’ than His? 1/18/2022
Q&A Am I Choosing Closeness over Intimacy When I Don’t Let My Mate Know About Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Lovemaking? 1/18/2022
Q&A Will the Betrayed’s Irritability Ever Go Away? 1/18/2022
Q&A What Should We Tell the Kids If They Ask Why Dad Is Living in the Basement? 1/18/2022
Q&A How Can My Wife Believe That She Fulfilled Her Fantasy If She Also Says That’s Not Who She Truly Is? 1/18/2022
Q&A Is This Finally Enough to Divorce and End Recovery Work? 1/18/2022
Q&A What Type of Recovery Program Does My Husband Need? 1/18/2022
Q&A How Can I Get My Emotionally Unavailable Husband to Walk toward the Storm Instead of Away? 1/18/2022
Q&A What Do I Do When the Betrayed Spouse Shuts Me Out and Doesn’t Want to Talk about His Pain, Unless Forced? 1/18/2022
Q&A Are My Expectations Too High? 12/17/2021
Q&A What Do We Do When the Affair Partner Refuses to Cooperate about the Child? 12/17/2021
Q&A How Can We Set Boundaries If They Keep Being Disregarded and Violated? 12/17/2021
Q&A Should I Change Churches or Should I Just Get Over It since It Was All in His Fantasies? 12/17/2021
Q&A What Should I Do With the Saved Messages between My Husband and His Affair Partners? 12/17/2021
Q&A Why Is He Okay as Long as I Don’t Talk about It? How Can We Get past This If He’s Unwilling to Answer Questions? 12/17/2021
Q&A How Can I Help My Husband Understand the Importance of Knowing the ‘Why’ and Also How to Can I Help Him See That It’s Not an Excuse or Blaming Anything? 12/17/2021
Q&A Should We Abstain from Sex at This Point in Our Recovery? 12/17/2021
Q&A At What Point Is It Unhealthy to Be Avoiding Events Because the Affair Partner May Go or Avoiding Places Because They Once Went There Together? 12/17/2021
Q&A Why Is My Wayward Spouse Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? 11/19/2021
