Safety in Recovery

The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do.

1103 Resources
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Video icon Q&A When is EMDR Necessary?
Video icon The Workplace Affair: Why the Office is the #1 Place for Infidelity
Video icon Q&A How Do I Set Boundaries for Myself While Staying Compassionate for My Spouses Issues?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Stop the Cycle of Self-Sabotage and Regain My Identity?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Repair The Damage I Caused from Trickle-Truth?
Video icon Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe?
Video icon Q&A Is It Possible to Reconcile, Given the Waywards Current Emotional State?
Video icon Q&A How Does an Accountability Partnership Work?
Video icon Q&A Do you Think It Is Fair To Focus on The Betrayed's Behaviors After D-Day?
Video icon Candiece & Cornellus Craft’s Alumni Story
Video icon Matt Monteverde's Alumni Story
Text icon Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain
Video icon Q&A How Do We Handle a Vindictive Affair Partner?
Video icon Q&A How Can the Wayward Stay Safe around the Betrayed’s Pain?
Video icon Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better?
Video icon Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves?
Video icon Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband?
Video icon Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?
Video icon Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner?
Video icon When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair?
Video icon Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?
Video icon Will I Ever Feel Chosen?
Video icon Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?
Video icon Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets
Video icon The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma
Video icon Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair
Video icon Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust?
Video icon Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding
Video icon Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel?
Video icon Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety
Text icon The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair
Video icon Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop?
Video icon Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?
Text icon Wanting to Be Wanted
Video icon Q&A How Do We Create Safety When My Husband Had an Emotional Affair with a Coworker for Approximately 7 Years?
Video icon Q&A How Do We Protect Ourselves from an Aggressive and Persistent Affair Partner?
Text icon How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse?
Video icon Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Find Closure When the Affair Partner Is a Close Family Friend?
Video icon Emotions Running Wild? Why You Lose Control After Infidelity
Video icon Were They Thinking of Me?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Feel Safe Knowing That the Worst Pain I Have Ever Felt Could Possibly Happen Again?
Video icon The Fantasyland of an Affair
Video icon Mistakes Families Make After an Affair
Video icon Q&A How Do I Respond If I Don’t Believe My Spouse?
Video icon Was the Sex So Much Better in Their Affair?
Video icon Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey?
Video icon Are They Thinking About the Other Person?
Video icon Is My Spouse a Narcissist?